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Don't want  

rdx37 38M
93 posts
3/5/2016 10:45 am
Don't want


Flirts. Flowers. Bling. Points. Tips... I couldn't find anything about them anywhere in the help section. Are they real money?

These features are WORTHLESS. They do absolutely nothing for me. I wish I could email someone, and they email me back. For this to happen, I need to be a paying member, and so do they (unless I pay for standard contacts, which I did for three months, which, in retrospect, I should not have done.)

SO, what is all this bullshit? Get rid of it. Try to foster relations between us by focusing on communications with words.

Perhaps this is my entire problem with why women do not respond to me? I don't send them points or flowers!!! Ha, ha...

I don't want all these crappy gimmicks that don't do anything productive. I've always ignored them and not bothered, but with all the 'help us improve' survey requests I get, I figured I'd just put some stuff out there! Again. You may tire of reading my repetitive whining, and I can't blame you. I'm unhappy with this place, which I paid money for, so I'm getting the cost of it in ranting therapy.

Don't hold it in, we always say.

I don't know what else to do here. I am more or less burnt out on trying to contact people. I still do, once in awhile, but this entire site is fake.

Not you people who read the blogs. That's the most real this place gets (for me). You've also got your handful of profiles which are definitely real, and those people are gems to be sifted from the rocky soil.

There is one woman who I really like. I mentioned her in a post some time ago, she did not pan out. Her entire photo collection is beautiful. She has such an artistic eye, and her confidence is to be aspired to. I like her sense of humor, and much else just based on her style and introduction.

I emailed her, twice, before she responded. When she did, she was considering me, but I never heard back. So I backed off, but I sent her a flirt* a few weeks ago (hoping she'd reconsider). Nothing, and that's ok.

I left a comment on her most recent photo yesterday, generally complimenting her style like I did above. drip drip drip.

I don't think my water torture will get her, she's too strong. I'll probably try again, at some point, but due to the fact I am leaving NJ I won't go as strong. It's a shame, I think we'd have gotten along great.

Then again, it could have been too good. You always run that risk. Love bites when you cast it aside and focus on enjoying life.

Love bites.... but so do I

Halestorm

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*a flirt? I thought those were worthless!

If it wasn't an option, I'd have done something else subtle. Like the photo comment. I am more thinking they are worthless when I get flirts from GERMANY, CANADA, HAWAII.

WTF are you people thinking? If you think I'm hot HOTlist me. Send a message compliment. The very nature of 'flirt' indicates possible interest, and lets see if we like each other.

Sooooo.....???

Maybe I'm being stupid again, getting worked up over robots. I may jump ship for a paying member only site.

I bet they cut the spam a lot by requiring payment.

love2pleasu13 56M
6472 posts
3/5/2016 11:29 am

good 2 know


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