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Open relationships???  

rm_kittykat1177 47F
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6/3/2011 7:42 am
Open relationships???

So here what i have learned so far about having an open relationship(I'm single). I have had the pleasure of playing on regular bases with cpls, and of course when you play often no matter how much you may state you want nsa, you will have strings. However that is not the point i want to make. I have notice lately that a lot of the times when a cpls states that they enjoy having threesome, that's useally not the case. I have met cpls where the women are simply trying to accommodate their partners. Its almost at time like they are being obligated to participate. Which can make for a long enjoyable night...So men and women who are in a relationship can you really have an open relationship?

Do either party feel that they obligated to participate?
Are you being force to participate?

kat

Aaron7512 47M
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8/8/2011 6:22 pm

 I guess I really didn't answer your question. No I don't feel forced, and I don't think she does either. It was her idea actually. While it's a very typical fantasy I was very hesitant to bring it up, or even appear overly anxious incase it was some sort of test. Ultimately she is way more open about relationships than I am.


Aaron7512 47M
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8/8/2011 6:13 pm

 I am in a relationship where we are interested in a third, but only to play as a group. We tried it once before but it was disapointing for us because we think the third was more interested in me than us. I'd be curious to know more about you because your preference for women would frankly be prefered in my opinion.


hungdaddy260 49M
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6/4/2011 6:02 am

 I am also in an open relationship but like cute n nerdy, we play separately not together.

Mike


cute_n_nerdy 43F
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6/3/2011 7:55 am

 I have an open relationship with my partner, so yes, I believe you can really have an open relationship. However, I think perhaps you're defining the term in a different manner; our open relationship means that we are open to playing with others, separately. What you describe doesn't sound like an open relationship to me - it sounds like a couple trying to spice up the bedroom antics.


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