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senecaguy2 63M
536 posts
8/3/2013 12:58 pm

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8/6/2013 10:27 am



So I have a "friend" who is essentially a<b> . </font></b>He is good looking and charismatic. Being around him makes most people feel very good, and especially the women. I have watched over the years as he played one woman after another. There was the trust fund girl. She was plain looking, and overweight -- but not grossly overweight. He was dating her at the same time he was living with another woman. Did they know about each other? I don't know. She was an actuary and buried in the statistics for an insurance company. She was a Rotarian and that was where they first met. He always had a business deal going, and she backed him. Off to London he went to pursue the oil business. She, of course, financed the trip, the apartment in London (not cheap), and the expenses. That relationship went on for maybe 5-6 years. Most of that time he was in London. She was paying.

When it ended, he moved in with his retired mother. He was 55 years old and broke. She was living in an 850 square foot retirement home. He was using her car.

Then he met another lady. She was in her late 60s and had a condo very close to my office building. I used to see them on the street every so often. She drove a Mercedes. That relationship went on for several years until she found pictures of a young woman on his phone and it all came crashing down. I don't know what she supplied, but I do know she is suing him. I am sure he used her and she financed one of his business deals.

Kicked out of her place and being sued, back he went to live with his mother in that little 850 foot apartment. But he was online and met another woman. This time from Texas. It was one of those wonderful online romances. They fell in love on the internet and within two months, they were married.

I just checked on my Facebook. He used to be a friend there. He deleted me. And he deleted a business partner of mine. But there pictures on his Facebook page. He is with his new wife in London, somewhere in Asia. So she is supporting them and a life of travel.

I wonder if he signed a pre-nup agreement. If not, I wonder what the divorce settlement will be. That is assuming a divorce. Maybe he will settle down. Then again, the odds are against it. Will he again be living with his mother now he is in his mid to late 60s?

I have interesting "friends" if I can call them that.

secretlives72 51F
155 posts
8/5/2013 1:06 pm

Sad how often this happens....I have had a few of these men cross my path (on a much smaller scale) and i hope i have now learned my lesson.


senecaguy2 replies on 8/6/2013 7:41 am:
For your sake I hope so. This guy is very good at being a gigolo. There are some guys who are simply losers. But even being very good, he has nothing to show for being over 60 years old. It is one thing for having adult children in their 20s move home; quite different when an adult child in their 60s has to move back home with his mother in a retirement home.

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