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Fwb Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I'm going to give you my definition of FWB, and FB. To me, if you are friends with benefits with me, we will enjoy regular play time, and we will do things together. It may just be a beer or a weekend somewhere, or a sporting event, talking and laughing, or nothing at all. But to me friends with benefits is enjoying time with each other but nothing more of a commitment than that. If we are fuckbuddies, we pretty much have play time. And nothing else. My FB's, and my FWB keep in contact with me on a periodic basis. I had a meet and greet, we both agreed we would do a FWB thing. I sent him a message the next morning telling him I enjoyed the night before. I didn't hear from him. I thought okay, I'll put it behind me and move on. Two and a half weeks later I get a message on Polyamory Date. Then he called, but the phone is in another room. A few days after that he text, then he calls. I'm like dude I haven't heard from you since we had sex together. He goes I'm contacting you now. I'm thinking Yeah right you're fucking horny. I told him I expected some sort of contact. He was dumbfounded like I have to talk to you between the times I want to fuckyou. I'm like this ain't gonna happen. You have a good life. How much communication do you have with your FWB, or your FB. I believe its whatever you too are comfortable with. As for me, it'seems part of the deal. This is an update since all the comments here. 2 people if they are involved in each others lives in any way I believe should have some sort of communication. If you don't, then why would you be involved with each other. Unless that is what you prefer. If that was going to be the case I could just pick up a stray every night. And with that being said they still communicate with me. Go figure. Have a good night. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls |
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good 2 have
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A FWB is a friend first and a sex partner second. Whether we have contact depends on if we have anything to talk about. I will call, or chat to simply say hi or maybe to discuss something substantive. Same applies for her. Be safe, relax and just have fun!
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2/15/2016 7:12 pm |
I would love to be with u as an fwb. I enjoy lots of sexual activities. I would ask u out to the pub for some pool and a couple of drinks. nothing more unless u want it I would like to be tour friend. I live in Canada u can one, four zero three - four three seven - nine four nine four my name is charles ("Fwb")
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yea I feel the same way about fwb, I had a fb he was a neighbor we both worked odd hours but he still made time to see how I was doing even when we didn't fuck, sometimes we just spend time talking about our jobs and kids,
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Here's the problem and here is how you fix it in the future. FWB , FB, NSA, etc all mean very different things to different people; there is no right or wrong. Also, IMO, you can't really say, OK, we''re going to have sex but also be friends" because friendship is something organic that grows over time. You've got to like someone to be their friend and you need to know them in order to like them. Fucking a couple of times just isn't enough. So here is how you avoid this problem in the future: ditch the terms. Instead of saying "I'm looking for a FWB" Just tell a man what you expect. See, if you say to someone, I want a FWB and this is what it means to me" what they hear is "I want a FWB ...BZZZZZZZZ". After the acronym all they hear is white noise because they have their own definition. Instead say, "we will do things together. It may just be a beer or a weekend somewhere, or a sporting event, talking and laughing, or nothing at all. Oh, and we can have play time too" This will help to weed out some of the "fuck and runs" but it also comes with the risk that someone you are interested in having as a FWB will not be interested in being a friend and more interested in something akin to your FB.
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OK. I get and respect your definitions. I am just wondering if, with you, one could just be demoted from FWB down to just a FB? Or if, once you've messed of the friend part, all of it is messed up? Does a FB have to be a better fuck? Or just readily available? to still get to stick around? Woodrow J. Evers
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good 2 have Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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That is good to have.  Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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A FWB is a friend first and a sex partner second. Whether we have contact depends on if we have anything to talk about. I will call, or chat to simply say hi or maybe to discuss something substantive. Same applies for her. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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I would love to be with u as an fwb. I enjoy lots of sexual activities. I would ask u out to the pub for some pool and a couple of drinks. nothing more unless u want it I would like to be tour friend. I live in Canada u can one, four zero three - four three seven - nine four nine four my name is charles ("Fwb") Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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yea I feel the same way about fwb, I had a fb he was a neighbor we both worked odd hours but he still made time to see how I was doing even when we didn't fuck, sometimes we just spend time talking about our jobs and kids, Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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Here's the problem and here is how you fix it in the future. FWB , FB, NSA, etc all mean very different things to different people; there is no right or wrong. Also, IMO, you can't really say, OK, we''re going to have sex but also be friends" because friendship is something organic that grows over time. You've got to like someone to be their friend and you need to know them in order to like them. Fucking a couple of times just isn't enough. So here is how you avoid this problem in the future: ditch the terms. Instead of saying "I'm looking for a FWB" Just tell a man what you expect. See, if you say to someone, I want a FWB and this is what it means to me" what they hear is "I want a FWB ...BZZZZZZZZ". After the acronym all they hear is white noise because they have their own definition. Instead say, "we will do things together. It may just be a beer or a weekend somewhere, or a sporting event, talking and laughing, or nothing at all. Oh, and we can have play time too" This will help to weed out some of the "fuck and runs" but it also comes with the risk that someone you are interested in having as a FWB will not be interested in being a friend and more interested in something akin to your FB. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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OK. I get and respect your definitions. I am just wondering if, with you, one could just be demoted from FWB down to just a FB? Or if, once you've messed of the friend part, all of it is messed up? Does a FB have to be a better fuck? Or just readily available? to still get to stick around? Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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I've never labeled it with anyone, we just did what we did, but I always keep in contact. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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Good morning. Personally I prefer a fwb type situation. Get together now and then to go camping, or drinking, or whatever, not just sex (although that's the main reason we would be involved together in the first place). A fb situation is okay, but I prefer not to have a one and done deal (it does happen though). Basically it comes down to what two people pretty much agree on as far as the arrangement is concerned.
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Good morning. Personally I prefer a fwb type situation. Get together now and then to go camping, or drinking, or whatever, not just sex (although that's the main reason we would be involved together in the first place). A fb situation is okay, but I prefer not to have a one and done deal (it does happen though). Basically it comes down to what two people pretty much agree on as far as the arrangement is concerned. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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Yes, I have to think that if someone likes me she's going to want to hear from me, and if I like her- horny or not- I'm going to call and talk to her. Nobody wants to feel like they're just being used. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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Yes, I have to think that if someone likes me she's going to want to hear from me, and if I like her- horny or not- I'm going to call and talk to her. Nobody wants to feel like they're just being used. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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I think friends are better who say around for every thing
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I think friends are better who say around for every thing Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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