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The Sports Sex Illustrated Issue
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The Sports Sex Illustrated Issue Warning~ The following is not a criticism, judgment, or a slight on any type of sport sex! This is just a musing of sorts of the experiences I have had and what my personal conclusions to this date have been~ Rock on with your sports sex self if that is what is calling you to do! Welcome to my first edition Sports Sex Illustrated Issue of Alpha Siren’s Blog. Sport sex is usually a matter of quantity over quality in my book. Many people see one night stands as sports sex. How long? How fast? How many? Go Go Go! I have experienced this phenomenon in my life and at the time really enjoyed myself. My wild nympho self was full effect! As I try to wrench my bone dry sex drive back to life, I am finding my experiences have a certain level of detached-ness to them. Like I am observing from above. Watching, analyzing, searching for connection. Sports sex for me seems like living in black and white. I want some kind of deeper meaning. I went to a sex club the last two weekend with my Striking Viking and it was a serious blast from the past. Watching the dynamics of open sexuality all around me was fresh and fun. I am extremely comfortable in these environments and found myself smiling as we explored the cracks and crevices of the place. What made me take pause was the people who were not smiling. In these type of places it can be the playground for experiments or a recipe for a disaster for relationships. Being sensitive to all of these dynamics I watched as younger couples whole sexual reality was being put to the test. Will they flourish or fade? Some younger people were being loud and drunk, yelling to get fucked harder. Others were wide eyed and close to tears holding onto the arm of their partner wishing they could look away from what they obviously perceived as a freak show. As we move deeper into this type of life, we encounter a plethora of attitudes towards sex and relationships. Some people want to just talk sex and every other word is fuck or suck. They are looking for quantity and seem to be on a mission to fuck as many as they can as fast as they can. Then on the other side of the spectrum we have the people who want to talk about the forbidden topics: Religion, Politics and LOVE. These are the people who like the thought of being in an<b> open relationship </font></b>but for some reason, it just is not feasible for them to put the theoretical into factual. I seem to fall into the middle. I like to talk about it all. If it is all one side or the other, I seem to get bored and the redundancy level soars~ I am not totally looking for the quick fuck or the quantity. I want quality relationships where the levels of communication are open…and we have lots of sex~ heeeheee.. I just made myself laugh! Living in an<b> open relationship </font></b>takes on some new meanings when you add the sex component to it. We are free to explore and try new things. There are times when you go with an adventure because your partner has yet to experience it. All the levels are delicious and deep if you step back and see the whole picture. It’s the adventure~ putting your heart into your actions can be scary, but risk is usually worth it! Have fun out there! xoxoxoxoox A/s  Alphasiren~ Swimming through the waters of non traditional relationships~  |
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3/28/2011 2:30 pm |
Love to experience you, wild or mild. very attractive and I get what you are saying. Robert
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