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Blogs > thax013 > Head Splinters

Seriously, this is emotionally messed up.  

thax013 46M
534 posts
6/18/2019 8:40 pm

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6/19/2019 10:41 am
Seriously, this is emotionally messed up.
I have been dealing with a ton of emotional pain lately. The cruel life joke, of my co-workers is going into a hard divorce. For the past few days, he has been asking me for advice and support. He is a friend, a friend in need. I do not know how I have been able to put my issues, apprehensions, pain, to the side and help him, support him, encourage him. Somehow I have.

I have done as much as I can. Fortunately he took my advice and got some work sponsored professional help.

I know I give too much of myself . Still, no matter, I seem always have more give. I found this description pretty accurate, for me anyway. It continues on with a guilt trip about hurting . I hate guilt trips, so I cut that . I do like the start of it though.

I wish I had of my solid FWB talk . Reassure me or correct me, even just listen. If nothing else, get my mind off my worries.

But I do not. So I will continue trudge through this. Step by step through the morass. All while carrying and supporting other’s burdens. We will get past the morass.

Visit my blog if you want to at thax013 and thank you very much!
CleavageFan4U 67M
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6/19/2019 4:29 am

 The blogs are a good place to at least vent too!

Hang in there my friend.

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thax013 replies on 6/19/2019 6:09 am:
That is true. My main reason for starting this blog was for me to let out what I tend to hold in. I tend to be very closed.

It turned into a good way to stay on the site without getting overwhelmed by the massive amounts of waiting for responses that never come, and rejection that all guys tend to have here, or any similar site.

Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 posts
6/19/2019 4:44 am

 Blogging, journaling can be great ways to lift some of the burden. Like you referred your co-worker to EAP's help as well.

Take care


thax013 replies on 6/19/2019 6:09 am:
That it sure can. Thank you very much for your comment.

pocogato12 71F  
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6/19/2019 6:35 am

 Reading the blogs and leaving comments on some can help ease one through some of life's temporary pits. I do it sometimes as I am in the midst of a deep pit. The good moments will someday overcome the nasty ones
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thax013 replies on 6/19/2019 10:08 am:
Yes, the good moments are more numerous and longer than the pits. As humans, we tend to focus more on the negative instead of the positive. Something which I know that I am guilty of.

Good times will return again, hang in there lovely lady.

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