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Blogs > talentedlvr > Life in the Fast Lane

Kissing...The Lost Art?  

talentedlvr 50M
22 posts
8/15/2011 2:58 am
Kissing...The Lost Art?
Do you remember your first kiss? There is something special about that first kiss. The anticipation, expectation, healthy dose of fear, risk, and a certain risqué to the situation. I was hooked instantly from that first kiss forward. I have loved the art of kissing.

I am hear to tell you (the three of you that will read this blog...lol) that I think kissing is a lost art. Or, perhaps, kissing is a lost art to those that meet on dating sites? Too often I find there might be some initial kissing but it is a mere obligation before moving on to things more carnal. As a testament to how bad things have gotten do you know that we have a forum for shoe fetishes on this site but not a forum for kissing? What has the world come to? **I was going to post this in the<b> shoe fetish </font></b>forum but then thought better of it...**

Do you not agree? Remember those teenage years, before sex where you spent hours necking and it was THE thing to do. Okay, admittedly, some of those hours were because she wasn't moving past 2nd base, but you loved every second of those hours. Then sex entered the picture and kissing was a nice prelude to what you really wanted. I am saying we have to go back in time to rediscover, what some of us have never forgotten, that kissing is an incredibly intimate act worthy of your time! More than that, it is an art form. Why as we "mature" and grow older do we have to move away from passionate kissing? Just to clarify, I am not advocating that we all start sucking face...I am talking about passionate, playful, artful kissing that is deliberate in its purpose.

Ok, so I want to know. Where does kissing rate with you? Perhaps more importantly, do you have a favorite style of kiss? I have two favorites.

  • I like the teasing kiss or "almost kiss" where your mouth moves oh so close to kissing, perhaps even lightly brushing her lips, but then move away (often to be met with a sudden crashing together of lips).
  • I love the "Australian Kiss" which I will let you try to figure out...


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    ricancouple21 55M/57F
    684 posts
    8/15/2011 3:16 am

    		 Definitely agree.

    I've had some seriously bad kissing experiences. Everything from having my faced sucked clean off my skull, to sloppy kisses that left me soaked. Whoever told these people they were good kissers should be tarred and feathered.
    Please forgive my wandering mind, I lost her leash


    jeannie409 70F  
    503 posts
    8/15/2011 9:46 pm

    		 I agree kissing is sometimes a lost art, the nights the bird and I kiss the whole time we are making out is the absolute best,,, its hungry and teasing and sensual and pleasing...


    talentedlvr 50M
    26 posts
    8/15/2011 10:01 pm

    		 ricancouple21 Yeah I have had a few of those as well...one girl had this crazy stiff tongue...I felt like I was swallowing a sword on a nightly basis. Turned out the sex wasn't any better...should have left after the kissing...lol.


    talentedlvr 50M
    26 posts
    8/15/2011 10:04 pm

    		 lonelycabingirl...Yup there is nothing better than a good kiss. I like the way you think...those soft, teasing kiss are great and nibbling is all good too!


    talentedlvr 50M
    26 posts
    8/15/2011 10:12 pm

    		 jeannie409 That is the best and the point too! It is teasing and it drives the passion. I can't think of a better way to really turn someone on and likewise be turned on at the same time.

    Now, I have never been with a hooker but it is my understanding that they won't kiss their John. If that is true what does that say about the intimacy level of kissing when compared with sex?


    talentedlvr 50M
    26 posts
    8/16/2011 9:07 pm
      Quoting  :
    See now that is what I am talking about. Kissing doesn't have to replace sex it just is a great way to heighten the anticipation, hunger and passion level, so that if sex is the next phase it is augmented by the intensity built up through kissing!


    jeannie409 70F  
    503 posts
    8/18/2011 10:56 pm

    		 Talented your a very smart man......train some more smart men, but did you notice its only women responding to you....


    talentedlvr 50M
    26 posts
    8/20/2011 2:42 am
      Quoting jeannie409:
      Talented your a very smart man......train some more smart men, but did you notice its only women responding to you....
    I have never been accused of being smart before and if I did have the chance to train men I'd hope they were prepared for me and the world in generals. I have noticed that it is women resounding to my blog posts (rather than my profile, of course).

    W


    aguylookn 56M/50F
    5 posts
    4/20/2013 2:42 pm

    		 I think that kissing is a very important part of getting closer to someone. I think that you connect on a higher level.


    talentedlvr 50M
    26 posts
    7/30/2013 6:03 pm

    		 Couldn't agree more aguylookn! Kissing is is the first invitation to be intimate with someone else.


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