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Friends First?  

ShadyandAria 73M/66F  
28 posts
11/11/2016 9:33 pm
Friends First?

Do you find that it's important to be friends before you fuck? Do you want a relationship? Friends with benefits?
Do you have any concerns about attachments? I have some close friends that I love. If I started having sex with them, I think my marriage might be at risk. When i see the profiles where they say that they want to have friendships I wonder if they've thought of the possiblility of falling in love.

timemarcheson4me 70M

11/11/2016 10:33 pm

 personally for me No...I have a hard time to know what Love is... I like to be friends and if we make out great if not that's ok too


ShadyandAria 73M/66F  
142 posts
11/13/2016 10:23 am

 Certainly we want to spend time with fun people that we like. We're less concerned with having them meet our kids and other mainstream friends. We're not lookng for lovers, we're looking for sexual partners. Of course, people here are adults and can choose their own friends but I would be on my guard. It seems risky. At least it would be for me.


FunNewGuy1000 63M
511 posts
12/8/2016 12:21 am

 I think it is probably important to at least like your paramours. Some have difficulty separating sexual relationships from love relationships. It is wise to be on guard and avoid those sorts, primarily because they can not be trusted to consider the sanctity of your existing relationship. Having fatals singing out your window late at night is a real risk. Mature adults usually know the score.........
Experience is a good teacher, even if the lessons are bad.


toonmalelooking 52M

3/15/2017 5:43 am

 I've tried that with women that only want to be friends first. Nothing comes from it, so I move on


beaverlicker102 67M

7/13/2017 6:49 pm

 yes i believe friends first and sex after you get to know the person that way its more intense and if married its nice to be friends with both


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