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Blogs > LakeheadM > Sex and the Lakehead

Long time coming  

LakeheadM 43M
16 posts
6/8/2019 9:31 am
Long time coming

I've been an Polyamory Date user for probably 15 years, or maybe more. This site, and community, have given me a lot of pleasure over that time, but the funny thing is, I've only ever met one woman off this site.

I've been thinking about that a bit lately, and I think it comes down to me feeling generally intimidated by women who are so open with their sexuality and what they want. I'm turned on by that, of course, but there's a part of me that has always felt like, "you could have anyone, and you want me?!"

And I get spooked, as if we'll meet up and I won't be able to deliver on whatever it is I've convinced them I'm like (although I'm pretty honest when I chat with people, so I don't know why I would think that).

The other funny thing about that is I don't feel as intimidated by women on more mainstream dating websites. I've been able to meet up and go on dates with attractive women and even had a couple of fulfilling relationships, but they've never really satisfied the same desires this site inspires.

Anyway, just some idle thoughts on a sunny saturday afternoon.

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
6/8/2019 11:11 am



Gorgeous day today . . .


LakeheadM 43M
26 posts
6/13/2019 5:46 am

 Hey, thanks for the follow. I'm hoping to post more often, and hopefully play more often too! I know the Durham Region area pretty well so I'm sure we'd have plenty to talk about.


Taylor_d12 27M
2 posts
6/13/2019 5:15 pm

 Can’t be discouraged lol


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