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Blogs > im_soaking_wet > Sessions with Soaking

Conflicted Mind  

im_soaking_wet 40F
4262 posts
12/3/2012 7:49 pm
Conflicted Mind
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iwillkissubak 48M
40 posts
12/3/2012 10:20 pm

 I struggle with the same thing.


cute_n_nerdy 43F
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1478 posts
12/4/2012 5:20 am

 ah Soaks That's not what I wanted to read.

It took me ten years to figure it out. The line is different for everyone. But if the same issue keeps coming up, again and again, sometimes it's just better to call it quits - for both of you.

I decided that love wasn't enough - that there has to be other things that were also important to me too. If the same issue keeps coming up and every time, it isn't resolved ... it will never be resolved. You need to figure out if it's something you can live with for the rest of your life - and from the few times we chatted, I don't think that's the case.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
12/7/2012 10:12 am

 welcome back. sorry to hear things didnt turn out well for you both. its too bad the issues didnt get enough work done on them. i am kind of in the same spot as you. back with my ex and i am making damn sure that the issues are getting enough work done on them.


ArcAngelXVI 66M  
58 posts
12/9/2012 4:57 pm

 Well I stole a saying from my dear sweet Ma, "and the day went exactly the way it was supposed to" and for me it just kind of puts it in perspective, good or bad is relative depends on who's "judging". As for the ex's.... they are ex's for a reason... done it a few time (the going back thing) honestly... ya just can't go back!!


hunterpt 62M
13507 posts
11/17/2015 6:33 am

 Sometimes i have the same feelings. Kisses


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