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1st Quarter 2019  

ThickDick74 49M/47F
4 posts
3/18/2019 10:38 pm
1st Quarter 2019

It doesn't seem like anyone is having fun on this site anymore. Everything has become far too much effort to connect with people. Too many hurdles to jump through, too many games being played with zero to no real follow thru. IDK what happened, perhaps the truth in swinging has died and everyone is just this. Could be the erosion of social depth creeping in like arthritis or something but as one of my friends once said: "the internet is both enhancing and ruining everything at the same time!"


HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
3/19/2019 12:24 am

Interesting observations.


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
3/19/2019 4:08 am

I'm genuinely curious what you consider to be "far too much effort to connect." For some men it's "having to tell her my real name." For others it's "I have to actually talk about something other than my dick and how awesome it is." Even meeting for a first platonic coffee or happy hour is "too much effort" for some men. Instead of upping their game, they want me to dumb down mine.

For me, effort and connection go hand in hand. If a man makes no or low effort to show interest in me as a person, I feel no connection. It's guaranteed that if he's too lazy to make much effort at connecting with me before sex, he's totally going to be too lazy to make any effort to please me in the sack. Fortunately, there's enough men who get it and choose to make the effort so yeah, there's a few of us having fun here!


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