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Well, that makes me feel even better.
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Well, that makes me feel even better. After what happened yesterday........I feel like my heart was ripped out. I don't know what to do today. I couldn't sleep last night. I probably got three hours of sleep. Then this guys sends me a message: "You know I'm the only one who wants you Mariam. It's time to face the facts. Me or be single. How much longer are you going to lie to yourself. Nobody else wants you." He doesn't even know what's going on in my life. It seems pathetic to actually be bothered by this but I feel like what he's saying is true. I'm 27, never had a boyfriend and guys I like rarely talk to me. When they do, it doesn't progress to anything. A guy yesterday just outright told me he wasn't interested and didn't want to date me after I thought he was so nice. I thought he was special but he didn't like me. He was so cold. I think I'm going to disable POF for a couple of months. This guy has been harassing me since April. I block him and he just creates new accounts. This is extreme but I actually hate this guy. I wish he would be wiped off the planet. |
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Never respond to him. When you see him, hit delete, don't even read it. Make sure he knows nothing about you, address and phone. He will hopefully get tired and bored and disappear. Put him out of your mind and do your thing. He sounds like a lunatic. Not everyone is right for everyone. Rejection hurts, but it can keep you available for when the right one appears. A lot of people, including me, will tend to back off if things look like they may go further. It's a curse. You will be fine.
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First of all, you look like a very attractive young woman. But ya know, there are all kinds of nuts out there! Ignore him. Just like positively4you, says. The more you let this person, and I use the word loosely, affect you, the more he will keep up his crap. People like him thrive on your reaction. No reaction, nothing for the creep to thrive on. You will find the right person, at the right time. And by the way, you are not the only one having trouble meeting someone in this crazy day and time. Now come on and show us some more of that sexy pussy  Anything done half-heartedly will net you an equivalent result. ~CH
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Ignore him, that's all. He wants your attention so ignore him! Teddy
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I hate that you're going through that. I would suggest changing your username + hiding your profile, but I think they charge for stuff like that.
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10/8/2015 3:24 am |
Try not to get upset at the little 'man' who gets off berating and insulting a decent woman like you. He's not worth getting upset over. I'd quit the site and before you do, contact the site administrators about his mutiple fake identities and his cyber harrassing. You deserve so much more than this shit.
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agree with everyone here --- for starters, definitely a control-freak and a PHYSCO, -- ignore, ignore, ignore !! may be a dumb question -- but have you tried any of the other "normal" sites like Match.com or e-Harmony? ... at least thre, you're supposed to get matches based on common interests, etc etc . (I dont know how POF works, but I've heard it's much more low-brow than the ones you see advertised on TV) ... and it may sound redundant, but maybe just take some time for YOURSELF -- "work" on you and what makes you happy and a whole person. When you are %100 , maybe then the magic will happen unexpectedly....
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The obvious, thats a fucked up thing to say, I went for a long time without having a a real GF, went through numerous cyber things that of course never lead to anything. Happily/Sadly married the first GF I had, divorced now but much better for it. You will find somebody you really do like, and they will like you back. I don't see a reason to put a timer on yourself finding that one in your life, I sort of did ended up in a bad spot for a few years. Oh well, I'm the wiser now, you will find what you want, until then just ignore that asshole.
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worst comes to worst, u may be better off being a nun than being with that guy
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