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Can't we all just get along...  

Do_u_wanna_kiss 58F
168 posts
6/4/2014 4:31 pm
Can't we all just get along...


I've taken a lot of time to get my profile exactly where it is and I'm pretty happy with it...I state CLEARLY what I'm looking for so as not to confuse anyone...we all have preferences, blonde hair, blue eyes, dark features...it's a matter of being attracted to someone...what appeals to each individual...well I happen to prefer caucasian men and it's stated in my profile...I continue to get emails from different races but it seems that only African American men call me a racist...I'm not here to offend anyone...not everyone is attracted to me because I'm a BBW...I don't get offended...it has nothing to do with the color of someone's skin, merely facial attraction...if that makes me shallow then so be it...but racist I am not...I know this for a fact because I grew up with a racist father...my mother made sure we were not raised that way...some of my best friends growing up were African Americans but they were not allowed in my house because of my father...just as some who hurt because of prejudice, I also felt that hurt for myself and for my friends...to this day one of my best male friends is African American...he has been attracted to me for years and only recently did he tell me...well he lives 2 hours away and I haven't seen him so who knows what can happen...he is attractive in my eyes but it's not like I'm going out of my way to avoid him or anyone else for that matter...the particular man who called me a racist today happens to have nothing but pics of caucasian women on his profile...does that make him a racist?...no and I would never even think that...but it's been my experience that most people that call someone a racist are themselves racist...can't we all just get along???

rm_CtMuffDiver 54M
89 posts
6/18/2014 8:12 pm

Queen, we all have our preferences. Being a woman you can be more specific & choosy than we guys can.....I do not really understand why, but that's the way it is. If I were to describe my ideal sexual partner, chances are 99.9% of women would not be everything I hoped for, but nearly all have their own nuances worthy of merit and most would probably be surprisingly enjoyable. Every woman is unique and almost every one is beautiful in some way, like snowflakes. BTW, I am blond haired, blue eyed, trim, cleanshaven, fun & handsome....and would show up if you were interested.


rm_CtMuffDiver 54M
89 posts
6/25/2014 1:01 pm

Wanting what we want should not be attacked here. Questioned, yes....and each of us should be courteous enough to give a reasoned, logical response. That said, chances are none of us will be fortunate enough to hookup with the "Ideal" playmate. Allowances need to be made, or we'd all miss out on pleasant surprises.


777offroad 67M
86 posts
12/30/2016 9:24 am

I agree with u. Those who cry racist are often themselves guilty of the same.


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