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Love.....  

mocetar7 54M
97 posts
1/17/2016 4:41 am
Love.....


This still perplexes me: is there such a thing as real/true love? Would we know when we see it? How long would it take for us to recognize it? How long would we have it in our lives? Would we always think it would end sooner or later?

It's seems to me that for most of that are here that we kind of feel/know that true love is almost an urban myth. We don't expect it, and if it does strike us, we would feel/question it's longevity.

It's gotten to a point that we have to "purchase" these moments of love in order to get a glimpse/taste of perhaps what could be. Don't get me wrong - I mean no disrespect for anybody. In fact, I am in the same boat myself.

But, you know, just thinking out loud.....

rm_meethookup 71M
85 posts
1/17/2016 4:46 am

been here for 63 years . . . .. . . have never seen true love. . . . . . heard about it . . . .. . . but never seen it . . . . . . . when people use the love . . . . . . . I always look at what the person is gaining by what they have said . . . . .. and always it is some material procession . . .. . . but then again I do live in hope of find it .. . . . go figure


mocetar7 replies on 1/17/2016 7:25 pm:
Hello!

Interesting choice of words... Thank you, you've given me something to think about.

I have another question for you - would you recognize it though? If yes, how would you recognize it?

I feel your hurt/sadness when you talk about the materialistic shade of "love"; in your 63 years, you must have lived through some stories....

Many thanks for stopping by....

KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
1/17/2016 10:33 am

All love, is real or true love. The concept of "in love" has been the subject of poetry since it came about, so I do tend to think it exists but is elusive for many.

I tend to think that ecstatic first blush "love" that we have towards a new sexual playmate is not "in love". The "in love" part takes a while to deepen. That can be anywhere from 6 months to 2 years to develop.

Just my two cents,
Kk

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mocetar7 replies on 1/17/2016 7:40 pm:
Is there no love if there is no yearning for our lover? So it there is yearning, but no inclination for sex, is it still love if the yearning for friendship/communication is still there?

(The assumption here is being able to have sex... )

True, sex is not love. But while we are still able to, isn't it an important/extraordinary component/factor of love?

I agree on the time element, and the not "in love" feeling. Lust plays quite a role initially, doesn't it? More than most could admit, I guess.....

But, yeah, that initial "high"? Totally addictive, isn't it...

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