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Just how picky are you?  

mocetar7 54M
97 posts
4/17/2012 5:11 am
Just how picky are you?


I remember reading a book many years ago, in which the warring couple commented after sex:
She said, "Mercy fuck..."
He said, "Grudge hump....."

That got me thinking just how picky are we when it comes to having sex with someone. Not love, coz we do love only the one we want/learn to love. But just plain sex.

Personally, I just couldn't have sex with anyone that I did not find attractive to me; I'm afraid I do have check-lists, and as long as she passes them, then only would I consider "going forward". Sure I might be rejected, I know, but that's alright, right?

Maybe a situation would have different answers?

Like in an orgy: would there be a certain person who you will not have sex with?

Or if someone flirts with you and wants to have sex with you, and they are not exactly on your list of fuck-worthy people, would you oblige? Any mitigating factors?

How would you dish out the rejection? How would you handle if your advances were being rejected?

Or would you engage in sex with that person? What would your reason(s) be?

rm__FORGED_ 51M
628 posts
5/2/2012 11:04 pm

Depends what you want to call attraction. What attracts you to a certain person at a certain time. It's easy to put the above scenario and jam it to fit a generalization, but crawl into those people's minds the night before, there would have had to find some sort of attraction to proceeding with the act of fucking one another! Lol!

I have had sex with women who don't fit my checklist. If I waited for that I would rarely if ever have sex at all.

Also remember that humans use hindsight is 20/20 as an way to deal with a decision that went wrong.

I would much rather read the article from the night before, and the minds at work that lead to the morning after mercy fuck. That would tell the tale. Our brain works wonders on us and we end up convincing ourselves into and out of situations.

Just ask any salesman! Lol!

She saw something in him, he saw something in her that led to a night of something less than desireable in both of their minds.

Would I have sex with someone who didn't fit a checklist? Yup. It's sex. Full time relationship? That's different.

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mocetar7 replies on 5/3/2012 8:03 pm:
You raise a few good and interesting points...

I guess there are as many different answers as there are ice-cream flavours!

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