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 Memories of Mother's Day conversations. Originally posted to my alt blog May, 2009. May, 2008. I obligatorily phoned my mom to acknowledge the Day set side for Mother's, without knowing what to say, [what does "Happy _______(anything)" really mean after all?] I don't mind recognizing/celebrating holiday and other "special days," deemed "special" by others. Baptism, Bris? sure. Maid of honor? plan the bridal shower, pay for travel and a dress? of course. ♥ halloween? I deplore it, and i'll be in costume at the party you invited me to. It won't be "sexy," that's for everyday. Calling attention to the event is easy, it's the Obligatory conversation that ensues i can't abide. I say, "mom, i hope your day is happy or will be for a few moments before it's over. How's it going so far?" She says, "it's all good, just sitting here." That's my clue to ask if my siblings called and what they spoke about. Last year, I beat them to the phone. Mom, really was, "just sitting there." I decided to tell her I'd be visiting Las Vegas again soon. She knew about the earlier trip of the person (alt member) I saw for 6-weeks in the beginning of the year. 2008 was looking, to her; the Year of the Date. She said, "You seem to like this one okay. Where did you met him, on-line?." "Yes." "Match or one of those dating sites?" "No, not quite. I'm exploring some ideas about sex that aren't mainstream. At their core, all adult social site are about finding someone's whose your "match" for whatever the reason. What's weird is that on match/harmony sites sex is hardly mentioned and the site i'm on, people seem to think kinky sex transcends liking or knowing the other person." "I don't know, what are you looking for?" "Well, mom, actually my interest is specific. Have you heard the terms B/d or D/s? BDSM? Kinky sex? Fetish? Or of women that take the lead, sometimes called a dominatrix" "I've seen some of that on the TV. Not my thing, me and your dad are just fine." "Ask dad, maybe he'd like to be finer. Anyhow I am not what you seen on TV. I don't carry a whip or have slaves. Remember when I wanted to be sex therapist? I'm still interested in those things." "Well, you always were bossy." "Bossy? Why bossy, why not willful and determined? I think you say bossy because I'm female. Anyway, i was thinking you might like "My 's a Domme"* t-shirt for mother's day. Would you? Would you wear it?" "No thanks, that's okay. This call's enough." END OF MOTHER'S DAY 2008 MOTHER'S DAY 2009 I reminded my mom of last year and offered her the alternate t-shirt; "My other 's a sub." Luckily, she declined the gift because I neglected to run it by my sister. Is my sister a sub? I couldn't tell you, and neither could she. As she said after reading my profile, "you always were confident. it's cool you're doing this and meeting people. I don't think too much about sex or too much of it either." ---- *I don't consider myself a domme. It was that or "My 's defining her sexuality on her own terms." |
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I can't imagine any such conversation with either of my parents. It's wonderful that you can be so open with your mother.
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Not everyone wants to push the envelope... I enjoy raunchy humor but many do not...
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thats a lovely conversation you have with your mom... mine would probably have a heart attack if i told her i was thinking i'd love to have a woman insert a large dildo in my rectum.and then your suggestion that dad might find it interesting.. lol.. your a loving daughter that is obvious.. love your profile. thanks
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