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Hi there from the dreaded married man seeking  

rm_VBhilltop 50M
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3/3/2008 7:13 pm
Hi there from the dreaded married man seeking

Well I have never written a blog before but the day is young. For those of you who do not know me, I am the dreaded Polyamory Date married<b> man seeking. </font></b>I am not that unusual when you find out how many of us are on this website. The question is -- why are we here? what are we searching for?

I fall into even a more sinister sub-catagory of the Polyamory Date married man - I love my wife dearly and would do anything for her. I love my family and my home. I love my life and I have a soulmate. Yet, something is obviously missing because here I am as part of the Polyamory Date family.

To find out why I was here, I did some research. The answer may lie in the result of a study published on a major new outlet's website titled "Sexual Incompatibility Troubles Marriages." I was blown away when I saw this article because it confirmed that:

1. I am not the only married person who feels that my relationship with my spouse is wonderful in all ways except sexually.

2. I have close to what is medically defined as a "sexless marriage" (10 or less sexual acts in a given year).

So now I know that there are many like me (men and women) who suffer from the same problem. I have also recently found out that there are a lot of women on Polyamory Date who are married and looking as well as men, yet men get the "shaft" (no pun intended) whereas married women are almost a sought after commodity. Why is that?

Well, I am going to keep this blog going for awhile and list my experiences as the dreaded Polyamory Date married<b> man seeking. </font></b>I already had stranger sex and felt like I was having an out of body experience (not a good one at that). I have no idea what I am looking for but the ride should sure be interesting.

Talk to you soon.

kissableleo 73M
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3/4/2008 10:53 am

 Very good! I too am the proverbial "married seeking..." I too keep getting blasted by quite a few people. Of course all you have to do is post a Blog and someone will invariably blast you.
I am in a similar situation and am not seeking to change anything in my marriage except the sex! (or lack of)
Keep trying and someone will eventually talk to you.


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