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phone sex vs real thing
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phone sex vs real thing Just wondered what your thoughts are on phone sex. Have you tried it? Do you like it? And if you have done it prior to meeting someone new, does it make the real experience better because you know what to expect. Sort of already know the other persons likes and dislikes. Or do you like to wait for the real thing and finding out each and every like and dislike as you go? I find phone sex very erotic, getting to hear the other person verbalize what they like, and then hearing their breathing get heavier and listening to them moan until they cum. I just wish I was better at it myself. Just like sex, I get so caught up in the physical pleasure of it all and the mind energy it takes to keep my mind in a frenzy, that except for moaning and heavy breathing, I am mostly unable to speak. I guess I am vocal, but not verbal if ya know what I mean.So anyway...just wondered what your thoughts are. I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS!! (MY LIFE'S PHILOSOPHY) |
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I've tried phone sex and it just doesn't do it for me. It takes more than sound to excite me. When I make love to a woman I employ all of my senses and without sight, touch, scent and taste it just doesn't work.
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Thanks for your opinion guys...I think OBVIOUSLY...that NOTHING is better then the real thing, being with another person, but something about phone sex with someone I just find erotic. I am not saying someone I just meet for the first tie...but maybe someone I have talked to for a while. And you are correct...I get nothing from Cybering...I wouldn't do it. And I do not do the web cam thing, although I don't mind watching. But I will only watch people...couples or men that have audio. It is too boring to watch without audio. Anyway...thanks for you thoughts. I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS!! (MY LIFE'S PHILOSOPHY)
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I've experienced a few episodes and like any other interaction, it depends on the partner and the specific moment. I had been chatting on line with one funny, smart, sexy, artistic woman for weeks (maybe months) when we finally talked on the phone. The on line sessions were wonderful and diverse. On the telephone she sounded like a Jersey truck driver. Still smart and funny but OMG. On another occasion after many chat sessions on Polyamory Date limited to flirting and bantering I spoke on the phone with this woman a good 15 years younger than myself. That was a wonderful exciting conversation. It was late at night, well actually early in the morning. We were both needing a bit of a thrill. While not as exciting as skin to skin, it was delightful. It's not perfect, but it beats TV and hasn't landed me in court. Prof
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I've never tried phone sex. I don't think it would be very exciting unless I knew the woman on the other end of the phone.
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1/13/2009 10:52 am |
Ive done the phone sex thing a few times. Its not something I very good at. But its kind of fun and it does get me primed. I like to hear the heavy breathing from the woman im having phone sex with. On the phone vocal is good, Verbal is also very good. Its all about being comfortable with that person. Ive had phone sex with a few of the girls before Ive gone out with them.
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1/20/2009 7:57 pm |
Mixed feelings here. I have tried it more than a few times and only twice was it really good. But it is more of a pain than anything. I really like the real thing, being able to explore with my own two hands is way better than thinking/fantasizing about it. But to each his/her own.
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3/20/2009 4:14 pm |
yes it;s borrrring and it isent what i want the warm flesh is the tiket for me i love to smell the rose;s if you get the pitcher the woman in front of me is the thing that im thinking about and having somone telling how mutch i like sex on the phone isent good taking matters in my own hand and then paying for it makes me mad at some time you would think your taking to some guy that has a upper voice and hes the one liking it no it;s not for me im taking my product back to the baR WHERE IT CAME FROM taking my chance;s at the red green black hared woman at the end of the bar that used to be lesbeian well thats a start and lownly in seattle is the frase for me old man4x6
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