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Blogs > WalkonCandy_Lane > Bi myself I'm Candy Lane

I think I've been misunderstood  

WalkonCandy_Lane 39F
12 posts
1/28/2008 11:16 am
I think I've been misunderstood

I am a girl. I may think much like a guy but I in no way resemble one. I am the female half of a couple but we're not swingers.

I am a girl looking for a girl

I was explaining to some people in a chat last night how I've been bummed about not being able to find a fellow Bi girl to date. every one was nice but it wasn't until I really thought about it that I realized most people seemed to think I was a guy looking to have both a wife and a girl friend .

So here it is all out for ya

I am female I have all the parts to prove this.
I had a girlfriend and a boyfriend

then we all dated together

boyfriend is now my common law

girlfriend left to find here self in another part of the country. times passed I've gotten over it.

I love my spouse he's my best friend but who ever said you can't have two best friends

I WANT BOTH

I have the right to choose to do so if I want

so with the utter most respect to all you ladies out there

I want some one who gets this

Its hard. its hard to approach other girls. I get called nasty names or told there not like that.

a simple No would do if you don't like other women. No I'm not interested in women would do but please don't wait until after you kissed me thats just rude.

so if nice guys finish last apparently nice girls finish very last but we last the longest.....

the names hurt to people don't seem to get is that. I'm not a dyke I'm not a rug muncher I'm not gay or a lesbian or butch. I'm just me.

I'm Bi I go both way in just about everything
I'm a Sag that makes me a woman with a very wild side lol.

I'm public and proud of who I am and who I'm with.
I'm sick of being treated like there is something to be ashamed of here.

I WANT A GIRLFRIEND

I want to treat you with respect as my equal

would this all just work better if I told you I wanted to fuck your brains out cause I can do this to.

but the one thing I'm not going to do is walk in there treat you like a piece of meat then walk out and say ok see ya later..... ok well I could do the later but I prefer no one has to leave right after I like cuddles.

I feel like the people I've talked to even other bisexuals find my lifestyle strange but please at least open your eyes and try to understand

why do so many people seem to think it would be more acceptable if I just slept around and used women ?

I mean people that want to do that have every right but thats not me I want a relationship how is that so hard to understand?

and no not a fuck buddy

one day I want a wife and a husband

that doesn't make me sick maybe I just have extra love to give.

there might be allot of tears between now and then but you know what

I"M A FREAK DEAL WITH IT

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