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Updated 3//4/12 - Enigma of My Anal Sexuality  

tscolette 55T
774 posts
2/12/2012 2:39 am

Last Read:
11/10/2013 5:00 pm

Updated 3//4/12 - Enigma of My Anal Sexuality



UPDATE 3/4/12

I am hardly naive, and appreciate most aspects of human sexuality on some level. However...

Guys think when I flash my privates it is a sign that I desire to 'top their bottoms'. The majority of trans girls I have ever known, myself included, just are not into this. Men have this fantasy promoted by the Porn Industry. People like me go to a lot of trouble to attract certain men, assertive masculine men. Speaking to men they often get pretty squeamish considering the realities douching and hygiene practices one indulges for anal sex. I tell them my own psychology and sexuality are adapted, evolved into being stimulated...turned on by other things... yet they persist ignoring my desires. Cool huh? Just what any enlightened sexual being wants, an offensive, self centered lover. Uh huh.

For the<b> man seeking </font></b>a wild anal sex experience there are many options. Hire a lovely, beautifully hung TS escort. I laugh at the man that proudly states he does not 'pay for sex' while bringing his closeted, juvenile game to me, trying to treat me like a . 'Above that', Proud? or Cheap? I think the latter. You might seek a woman into strap on play...or take it to the one that really wants your hairy masculine man ass and go to the source, with a very studly gay man. Get into it and have fun. This last suggestion can't be any more offensive than the offers I get.. we all know you'd love it anyway!! Be brave, jump the hurdle, enjoy yourself.

Trans women hear it all the time. The whole 'Does this make me gay' thing... more juvenile, baby talk. For me I never befriend, much less screw, a person closeted about my friendship. My internal dialogue about labeling my sexuality is a long dead, ultra boring topic. People have all variety of labels for me. I could care less. So when approached by someone not clear about their self, and their desires... they are not an appropriate adult. I am certainly not a teacher or an experiment.

In this case my erotic expression is showing my genuine, very matter of fact sexuality... I'm plenty turned on and very proud of who and what I am. I am clearly not shy about having a penis.
People rarely notice my nipples being erect? I love for a man to eat some of my 'sweet candy' in the course of an interlude. Truth of it is... my own preference is to orgasm with a nicely hung partner fucking me. I've described prior I orgasm without any stimulation to my penis during anal sex, with an appropriate partner. My ass spasms around my lovers cock while I am ejaculating.. I'm told quite pleasing for him (No faking orgasms here!)... I am multi orgasmic this way, I can be taken right past that place to the next orgasmic plateau, and beyond...repeatedly....Obviously a man coaxing these experiences in me, quickly has a loyal erotic companion. Compelling as all this might be an appropriate social foundation is primary to the experience. Chemistry, attraction, safety, comfort... most importantly trust.

I suspect evolving into an authentic legally identified female in public life... I have a personal legitimacy in society that many girls like me lack. Point being many of the trans girls are more closeted and freaked out about their sexualities than even the men I contemptuously illustrate. So my experiences are often the slop from this climate of social deficit. There is a very unhealthy underlying current of shame and secrecy in trans sexuality that many people allow their self to be trained for. I knew it myself, but it is little use in my life today.

My sexuality is somewhat pan-sexual. meeting a woman or special trans girl... I am going to fuck every part of you like nobodies business... Femininity turns me on that way. Masculinity flips a different switch.


My wife and I were happy for 20 years, and then we met.- Rodney Dangerfield


sparkyl11 61M

2/19/2012 8:51 am

Very nice.


Rider191 73M  
236 posts
11/3/2013 6:16 pm

Beautiful in blue and smooth skin. The cock rings are so exciting. Like to be feeling that cock in my mouth and a spray of sweet warm cum..


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