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Blogs > DaBeaches > Thoughts and ponderings

Stalkers  

DaBeaches 62M/60F  
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5/14/2007 7:17 pm

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12/28/2007 11:07 pm
Stalkers
I had a recently had a strange outing while in Houston.
I really wish I could have said that it was exciting but I must admit it was a lil scary, now that I look back on the whole thing I am not sure if the guy meant to scare me or just what the man had in mind.
If anyone else has had a simliar exp I would love to hear how you got out of it.

I was in a small lil buisness district mall in downtown Houston when I had just finished my lunch in the food court, I had been a lil startled before that due to a man standing behind me on a cell phone and not moving, when the security guard just stood there keeping an eye on him.. I thought to myself.. I will just finish my lunch and move along.

So, I finished and did as I told myself I would when I approached an opening in a hallway entering the main area, I noticed a fairly nice looking big black man.. I remember thinking oh he is nice looking man. the thing that startled me was when I walked by.. he said.. you have sure have very pretty eyes.. I looked at him while walking away and said thank you...he then proceeded to follow me.. I walked faster so did he.. he then said.. you sure have a beautiful body too.. I then started walking more swiftly and I didnt hear everything the man was saying.. as I was nearing the end of the mall he practically yelled from behind me.. oh some guys have all the luck..I then quickly ducked into the drug store thinking that I can't go back the other way towards the security cuz I dont want to walk past him. but I was thinking I could tell someone in the store that I was being followed.. he then went on his way thank goodness as he was frightening me..

I also was thinking if only my cel phone hadnt died I could at least call hubby and talk to him not sure what I would have said but..

Now, I look back and was thinking did he know that he was scaring me.. or did he just want me to know that he was interested..?
Regardless, I guess my advice to guys is.. if you see a woman you find attractive.. go ahead and compliment her but dont follow her...
SensualEyez001 46M  
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12/28/2007 10:48 pm

 The first guy on the cell phone just standing there was really odd. Nobody should be doing that at all. Glad the security guard was there to keep him in check whatever his intentions. Now, as for the black guy, I would say 40% or 45% he was trying to hit on you. Some guys, and I've seen this, honestly think that kind of in your face move is what shows confidence an gets their interest. I believe though that you were right in just taking off an avoiding him. The bottom line is you have no idea what his real intentions are. Glad he just decided to move on his own way finally. I've compliment a girl or two in my day but they were just that, compliments without a hint of "hey, can I have your number etc etc". I definitely never kept following someone when it was obvious they were uninterested.
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