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Blogs > DaBeaches > Thoughts and ponderings

My latest pondering..I am confused help me.  

DaBeaches 62M/60F  
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3/11/2012 10:43 am

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10/21/2013 6:47 am
My latest pondering..I am confused help me.

I had a guy who I have never met, hit me up today and want me to cam with him. We did talk apparently years ago, I do not remember him it has been that long since we have chatted, He doesn't live in the area and not planning on moving back to the area.

My question is.. do you think that just because your horny, and I have my chat on that.. woo hoo! then I am horny too, and more than willing to cam with you?
How do I say this.. are some guys really that insensitive?
I even asked him.. I don't mean to sound rude but really what is in it for me to get you off? I kinda thought this was a two way street.. am I wrong?

Why does one have to be rude or feel as if they are being rude if they do not care to cam.. shouldn't a no I am not interested be sufficient? He was pretty much begging for me to cam with him after I said I am not interested. I had to tell him Sorry, I guess you will just have to go back into your list of contacts of people you haven't talked to in years and see if they will cam with you.. then no word back.
I asked hubby why are guys this way?.. he told me we are just hard wired that way..

Please don't get me wrong I do not think all guys are this way at all, I am not man bashing by any means,and my hubby most certainly isn't this way. Is is just a few guys that do this or is more common than I thought. For the most part I think guys have been pretty respectful.
Is it a matter of I need to get off and I need an outlet? or is it something else?
I guess I am just curious does this happen to a lot of people or am I just singled out because I sometimes turn my cam on from time to time? (I might add hardly ever in im chat)
Does anyone have any comments or similar issues ?

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