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I am just curious, am I alone in my thinking?
I am just curious, am I alone in my thinking? Maybe someone can shed some light on this situation for me. Is there anyone else that is bothered by, oh I slept with so and so.. you can ask them for a reference. I personally think that who we agree to have sex with is between us, and the people we have sex with. We are not into this for a popularity contest or to see how many we can fuck, and brag about it. Everyone is entitled to thier own opinion of course but what if the experience you had with someone wasnt really that great, do you really want them broadcasting that to everyone else. I prefer to make up my own mind about people, and do not want to make my decisions based on who has already had sex with that person. We have been called elusive, its not really elusive as much as it is discretion, I dont want to be judged by someone that I have had sex with nor do I want to judge someone else by whom they have had sex with. This is a total turn off for me. so, if you are interested great. let us know, but dont mention other people that you have slept with this could be a deal breaker. If we do agree to have sex with you.. then please honor our wishes as we will yours. It really isnt anyone elses business if we have had sex or not unless we are both there and we are in a conversation about it.. then it is all heresay right? Does anyone else agree with me? |
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. Totally agree. It's not only part of the discretion but part of the respect for the other person/s. Polyamory Date Parody Of a Real Sex Site
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I am so glad to hear that I am not the only one on this issue.. whew.
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