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BBW? I hear this all the time...Your not a BBW! Well maybe in technical terms I'm not, and if that's the case then in technical terms, I am Voluptuous( Hence The Name VV ). Now when I hear this from men, I say thank you because most of them are giving me a compliment. Then when I hear this from women, especially in the BBW room, I'm basically being, not insulted, but trashed! I had one lady private msg me and say your not a BBW so why are you in this room? I could have said cause I was here first and they like me more, BUT no I just said this is the only room where I feel welcome and if I have offended you, I'm sorry. If I go to another room I get messages like you FAT Bitch or Fat Ass Tease....NOW, I laugh my FAT ASS off when I get these, cause those are the Dicks that want some and ain't getting any! Where were you men & women at when I was 350lbs? That's right...I was FAT, BIG, CHUBBY, and whatever else you want to call it! I wasn't ashamed of it then and I'm not now. I didn't have any kind of surgery to make this all go away, I walked and watched what I ate for about 2 yrs and I lost it on my own, oh and a Divorce helped alot! I still consider myself a BBW and I always will, regardless of what size I am. I didn't post this to say hahahaha I'm smaller than you and all the men talk to me (when actually 90% of them are talking to my TiTs), I posted this to say...Hey I've Been There and It Was The Most Wonderful Place In The World To Be! Just stop and think about it..... Men: Would you have made the passes or really wanted to get to know me if I was 350lbs? Women: Would you still say your not a BBW or nothing but a Fat Ass Cam Slut instead? If you wanna know something about me then ask Damn it...Don't Judge My Book By It's Cover, Because Covers Can Be Changed! BBW DOES NOT MEAN Big Breasted Women! BBW MEANS BadAss Barbie Within! (my Version) BBW TRUE MEANING IS BIG BEAUTIFUL WOMEN! Oh and a Very Important Person to me right now, already answered this Question! And I LOVED his answer! |
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2/8/2007 3:03 pm |
good post, very interesting.
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2/8/2007 3:47 pm |
VV...I love your version..."BadAss Barbie Within"  VV ya know you are loved in the BBW room babe...hell you own that room  And you yave to tell me his answer ~Mystic~
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2/8/2007 4:06 pm |
VV,, Damn pround to have you have a friend, You look great and the hard work and effort you put forth shows.
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2/8/2007 4:30 pm |
Well that answers some questions anyway..
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2/8/2007 4:39 pm |
VV for me to answer the question you posed to men would be like asking a 24 year old female model if they would be hanging on the old guy if he didn't drive the Lexus and wear a Rolex watch. It's not worth answering because that's not what's relevant. What's relevant is that now you have many more opened doors and opportunities then you did before. So the question should be: Are you making the most of those new opportunities or are you continuing to dwell on the past?
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Funluver...WOW that is a great question! I like to think i'm making the best of it, but then again I guess I am dwelling on the past! Thanks for that insight, I think i'm gonna look at this different! 
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2/9/2007 5:07 am |
VV fun lover is right, and im sure i do not have to mention this but to add to it,, dont ever forget who you knew and how they kept you motivated, during your two year change.. there must have been plenty of smiles and hugs to go along with all the bad times that you struggled through.. you truely are a beautiful woman, and the outer appearance really has little bearing on it.. it shows by how kind and understanding you are towards others in your life and others in the chat room you enjoy being in ,,, my best to you and my thanx for sharing such such an uplifting event in your life. hope to see you and maybe get a chance to chat one to one with you soon,, aj
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2/9/2007 6:20 am |
VV I think you are and always will be a BW (Beautiful Woman), inside and out! The size of a woman doesn't make her necessarily beautiful but you have the qualities in a woman that does.
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Iv'e always known the true meaning of a BBW, and yes V V the future looks bright for you.
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VV, keep that positive outlook, some people do not know what it is like to be heavy, keep up the good work, you look great!
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BBW does mean Big Beautiful Women (I like your version better too btw lol), and If people look at and read what it says at the entrance to the BBW room, they may just say to themselves (well, the ones who can read), ahhhhh, I understand a little better now. Because it says at the entrance, and I quote "For people who think big, love big, want big." It's not just for fat chicks and dudes, It's for those that like fat chicks and dudes too, even though they may not be of the heavier persuasion, they just want someone who is. Ok, i'm done rambling lol.
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VV that was great. I too lost weight with diet and walking. The first yr I never missed a night on my walks. I still walk to control my diabetes. I get cranky when I don't get to get my walks in. About the room BBW. The BBW room is the only room that I was truly welcomed. The peeps for the most part are truly genuine. I have surf the others and found them to be really cliquish and rude. I think all the people that I am lucky enough to chat with are great people and fun loving and respected. I liked funlove response also, so good on ya girl and keep on the deans list. Okay Pleaser
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2/9/2007 7:25 pm |
One thing i've come to realize after "talking" to people on the internet is that you can think someone is hot, beautiful, attractive, etc., without ever seeing them. On this site you can totally fuck someone only using words. How cool is that? So 350, 150, or whatever you are VV, you're a hottie in my book.
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2/11/2007 8:20 am |
You VV are all WOMAN, No Man wants a size 0 aneorexic. They all need a true Woman, which you are in all it's aspects. Of course one could just describe you as WOW !!!!!!
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2/12/2007 7:41 am |
i love that version of your bbw .you are VV BAD ASS BARBIE WITHIN !!!!!!!!!!
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2/12/2007 5:37 pm |
i am a bbbw.......BIG, BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMAN........not politically correct...(i would be changing my thoughts daily) and i have non politically correct fantasies sometimes..... i figure it like this....... if you like me and i like you great. and if someone has a problem with the way i am don't talk to me..... because more then likely i may have an issue or two with that someone. life is too short, death too permanent, and my time is valuable..my oxygen too precious to share with someone that does not SEE me...know what i mean?
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