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Expectations!
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Expectations! I was pondering yesterday evening on some issues of what Men & Mostly Women expect from a Date! As a Woman (A Damn Good One), I don't expect much from the first few dates. I just want to kinda hang out and maybe get to know his/her quirks. But, this in turn does not usually lead to a second date, Why? Just because I didn't "lay down" with him/her, does that make me a tease or a not so good candidate for the next outing? Then again, what if I did "lay down" with them on the first date, does this make me a slut/ and not worthy of a second date because they already know what the "goods" are like? I just kinda want to get another opinion on this matter! I'm so confused...Do I Do The Do, Or Not? What do him/her expect outta of the first date? |
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1/31/2007 6:41 am |
whatever feel good baby
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ok i am gonna tell you about my date a year back . we met on line at yahoo personals . chatted for a week or so decided to meet . went had a very nice dinner had so much in common neither one of us would not stop talking that kind of date . came back to my house after dinner and had some wine together a little more talk . i figured this was the one so i didn't try anything with her . we said our goodbyes she gave me a kiss and told me i wasn't what she was looking for . so after all the chat and compatibility i get let down . now i see she is still on line looking i really don't think the girl know what sh wants . i don't know is any of this making any sense . lol
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1/31/2007 6:53 am |
The first meeting is usely a get to know each other. If someone does not sleep with me on the first date I do not think anything wrong with that. If things click with the woman that I am with I can wait till teh next time I see them in order to have sex with them. Sometimes it is better to wait to make sure this is the person that you want to have sex with.
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First dates are either hit or miss, you can usually tell by the first meeting weather you are both compatible, although not always the case. It just doesn't seem right to 'Do the Do' until getting to know each other on a more personal and trustworthy relationship?.
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1/31/2007 7:22 am |
What Men & Mostly Women expect from a Date? I love women and I love talking with a woman. There’s nothing better than being comfortable and enjoying good conversation. Listen to each other. Eye contact is important to me too. Don’t try to impress each other either. There’s nothing worse than trying to act a certain way, or put up a false front. I've never approached a woman with any expectations or hopes of intimacy. If we evolve to a point when that happens then the rewards will be great for us both. Be good!
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1/31/2007 11:14 am |
I think it depends on where you first met. In a bar, at school or on the street sort of thing then normal conventions of third to fifth date. On a sex site like here, I think the expectations of the average man is he's gonna get some. Problem there, is the online posing and such. So it comes down to what are you comfortable with? you are the one calling the shots and if you are a truly sexually liberated woman and not feeling any social/personal issues about being a slut, whore, etc for enjoying sex for sex (like a guy) then go for it. Problem there is that women in general still feel that they have something special to give that Mr. Right and, sadly, other women put the pressure on them to feel that way.
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1/31/2007 1:48 pm |
I wish i was there to help you make that choice
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1/31/2007 2:22 pm |
all you can hope for on the first date is interesting conversation that will lead to enough interest on both parts to lead to seconds, thirds and more.
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I think that what two consenting adults do is up to them.. I dont have any preconceived notions of what is going to happen,if you click have a great time and want to get your groove on cool if not ok also but I would be open to whatever happens
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1/31/2007 4:18 pm |
2V.. on a couple of occasions I have had sex on a first date. In none of those cases was there a second date. Mighta been cause I was a bad lay? or it mighta been the wrong thing to do? Who knows.. I don't think it would make the woman a slut/whore ect.. if she slept with a guy on the first date. However I do believe that if you slept with a guy because you thought that if you didn't he would not call you again.. I would think that would not be the right thing to do. If that is the way he is then you really don't want him do ya ?
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2/1/2007 12:56 pm |
VV, sweetie: Like with anything in life, follow your gut....if it feels right, go for it!...If you're not sure, then wait till the second date....If he can't wait for it, that's HIS (or HER hehe) problem!!! Kisses, Rick
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2/1/2007 2:34 pm |
V V I think your ideas about a first date are right on. No need to rush into the bedroom, anticipation makes the getting all the better. Of course "laying down" on the first date appeals to me too, especially if it was with you
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2/2/2007 2:59 am |
I expect to have a good time getting to know the date I'm with. I don't go into the date looking to get laid, but sometimes it happens. I do expect to have a great time getting to know my date, which usually leads to more dates in the future.
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