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Blogs > tresennui > Succumbing to Curiousity

Size Does Matter  

tresennui 69F  
2842 posts
6/12/2016 9:45 am

Last Read:
4/20/2019 8:23 pm
Size Does Matter
I'm referring to the size, well, really the length, of the distance between you and whoever you may be interested in.

Sure sometimes it works out if you and whoever you are interested in live 15-100s of miles apart; however, the odds are pretty slim. Sending an email, IM or developing some type of relationship with a fellow blogger who doesn't live close by will most likely be disappointing if your intent is to actually meet and then hopefully develop a friendship - sexual or otherwise.

Just thinking about the initial meeting for just a coffee or drink when you need to drive an hour or more brings thoughts of, "is it worth the effort for what might only be a brief meet up". And if you do hit it off, finding time to get together can be a challenge...no quick dinner and etc after work. It becomes almost necessary to spend nights together due to one of you having to drive home (often getting out of bed). Even worse is when only one of you can host.

Stick to local chatrooms and groups, look for who's online that live nearby when you IM or send emails. Not guaranteeing any results, but it may increase the odds of finding what/who you are looking for.
Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui
packageman57 67M
1093 posts
6/14/2016 7:59 pm

 There was a term that was used "geographically unacceptable" or "GU"for short.


ProfPlayful 53M
3861 posts
6/13/2016 1:56 pm

 Distance does not matter to me since I need a Herculean effort to spend more than an hour or so with anyone. In fact it is probably easier for me to make a rendezvous with a woman across the continent than a woman across the street. If I'm going to dream the impossible dream, I might as well dream big.
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tickles4us 62M
7262 posts
6/12/2016 3:19 pm

 That is the biggest problem with shopping online... distance.
Vive La Difference


tresennui replies on 6/12/2016 3:30 pm:
Unless you are guaranteed speedy delivery....free of charge.

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
6/12/2016 11:16 am

 It isn't too difficult to go through profiles in your immediate area.Once you
find that the majority aren't even active anymore ,if they ever were.It could take as little as an hour to as long as half a day to message those of interest.
If nothing materializes and people embark on greater distances to find someone only seems to raise the red flag of all red flags.The desperate
conquestador.
Men spend lifetimes looking to procure sexual encounters.It's only when their given a list of possibilities,people that are actively seeking others for sex
that they seem to forget their manners and respect.Not all,but enough that
make us all out to be the same.Sex sites really tend to convey a cloak to the desperate.Take caution when and where you tread and always think twice about what you say to people.
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seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
6/12/2016 10:34 am

 I think it's known as "sods law" ,. All the men I like are miles away, and those that are closer just don't float my boat


hrdallnght4u 67M

6/12/2016 10:10 am

 Yes it is awful that all the Women that peak My interest live so far away..
You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!


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