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A adult site ? It has amazed me, I have spent much of my time here in the " basement", a BDSM chat room. I have fought of " Trolls " and tried to make it one of the more friendliar rooms to be in. Though I am constantly reminded that this is a Sex site, which apparently is opposite of a adult, meaning no one under 18. Yet even being a adult sex site, I have found very few who actually act as adults. I have made many friends here in chatting, but the mature acting people seem to be out numbered by the inmature. It tends to make one wonder what the influence they are giving there ? I use to hang out in the "Basement", which many newcomers have stated is the friendliest room on Polyamory Date. Yet, even those who demand respect, act as though they have to prove to everyone they are what they claim to be, tend to act just like . Perhaps it is lost youth or a way of releasing the reality of life, it has to make one wonder sometimes. I've seen many come to the "basement" asking for advice, some with a serious question and some only to seek approval for their actions, right or wrong. If one uses common sense and has any value of right or wrong, they already have the answer. Then there are those who think there is a "protocol" to BDSM. A normal person would ( hopefully ) wonder where the term BDSM came from and why it suddenly needed to be separeted from other relationships as though it is something new. If anything is new, it would be non-BDSM. ( which apparently has earned the name of Vanilla ). Have you ever wondered who comes up with these names ? Since the dawn of the man/woman it has been a way of life. Not vanilla or " Gorean", it has been the way things started. I'm not saying it is right or wrong, it is where it began, it is not new to the world! Everyone has their own interpretation, I will conceed to that, but when I see those who elaborate on his/her enviorment or require their other half to post to the room their every move, it comes across as phony or as a need to prove to everyone, they are who they are to someone else. Which, if you think about it, is unreal or a low self asteem. If you look back on life ( how we came to be what we are ), we are where we are today, because we wanted to better ourselves. Not because of who has more, the Smith of the Jone's, we did it because it was what we wanted and didn't worry about others. There is a point where we want to advertise ourselves, with the world becoming smaller and the population becoming larger. There is a point where we need to sell ourselves to find the one who fits our needs. Then comes the question of, how far do we need to go ? Since now in this site alone, we become almost world wide viewing property of Polyamory Date. In other words, once you turn on your cam, once you write a profile, you are viewed by most of the modern world, you are no longer exclusive to a select few. How do you want the world to view you ? DO you want to find a certain one or do you you want the whole world to see you as you portrait yourself ? It is something to think about. |
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10/28/2006 9:12 pm |
Very good post. Thanks.>>>iaf1957
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no better way said...thankyou interesting post indeed PLAYFULFIRE013
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