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The Blow Job Enquiry
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The Blow Job Enquiry Romanticlvr posted a comment on my last blog Telepathy, and the biggest O of all time about how she would like to know what her blow jobs feel like to a man, so I wrote this reply and when I'd finished I thought it should be on my main blog, so here it is. I would really like some comments on this, most people find it very hard to describe what their sensations actually feel like, and I don't think I've done that great a job myself. Can anyone add anything? Well I can tell you what I like although you probably know most of this already.. Most importantly, (I'm sure you know this!) Teeth! Teeth must not touch the head of the penis as this HURTS! On the shaft it's ok, but even a light touch on the head feels like a saw blade! I think it works best if I am on my back with my partner between my legs, or alternatively if she lies back propped up against something and I have a leg either side of her breasts. This is because it allows access for her tongue to work the underside of my cock just behind the head. (I believe this is called the frenulum, and I think we should find another name for it because that just does not sound at all sexy!) This is the most indescribably intense and erotic feeling, far more pleasurable in terms of pure physical sensation than any other sex act. If you can rub the flat tongue, rather than pointed, across and up and down this area it sends a kind of electrifying tingling feeling spreading outwards, sometimes reaching as far as the whole body. A lot of women move their mouths up and down in a kind of fucking motion, which is great, but I find this just feels like fucking, and doesn't maximize the potential of the blow job. Sucking should be sucking, and I guess if you just imagine you are trying to suck away a lollipop as fast as possible, in other words suck hard (maybe not too hard) and rub with your tongue, then that's how I like it. This also presses the upper side of the head into the roof of the mouth which adds another kind of shooting sensation to the whole thing. (As long as it doesn't touch the teeth!) I expect the sucking brings more blood to the nerve endings....God I'm getting hard just writing this. Where's The Lioness when I need her? Oh yes, haven't seen her for fifteen years, forgot for a moment there! Orgasm seems to build much more slowly with a good blow job, the woman is in more control, and can keep me hovering just on the edge. I find this happens less when fucking, when once it starts to build it's going to happen soon. This means the last few moments (the part I like the best when orgasm is coming, but ejaculation hasn't started yet) can last longer with a blow job. This feels like a kind of dam waiting to burst. It's like there's a big reservoir of cum somewhere between the cock and the balls, not quite actually in the balls, and there's a kind of tingling swelling feeling coupled with something rather like the feeling you get when you are just about to sneeze. It is gloriously pleasurable, then the trigger goes and you pump; again it feels like it comes from the area between the penis and the testicles, and also somewhere in between the hips. Your mind goes blank but you are aware of how your partner is reacting - if she looks surprised or uncomfortable then for me it's a bit of a turn off, but if she's holding me in, loving it, or looking up at me smiling and sucking it out of me it intensifies the experience a lot. I especially love it when I can hear her mumbling "Mmmmmn Mmmnn" as she sucks. When this point is reached I find it very important for my partner to slow down her movements while I come. Sucking is still good, as is tonguing the frenulm, but the back of the head can become oversensitive at this point, and too much friction there spoils the moment a bit. I believe this happens to some women with their clit just after orgasm, can anyone enlighten me on that? Hope all this helps you to understand what the next lucky guy to get into your mouth is feeling!!! Can any women reciprocate with some description of how it feels to have their clit licked and what female orgasm really feels like? |
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11/2/2006 8:17 am |
Thanks...I am going read this to the B/F. I have always wondered if I am doing him justice in the oral department.
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11/2/2006 10:10 am |
Wow Dreamer, you've got me all wet and tingling...  I suppose I would get an A+ in your class PLUS ALL the extra credits you set forth(sucking after and yet not too hard on the tip after and the mumbling sound to let you know I enjoy it... ). NOW I realize why I am known for my BJ...  Though I have to admit sometimes I let the teeth touch and only because my jaw gets tired but I have always made sure not to touch the head and... Wonderfully described to be felt and pictured in mind... THANKS. Now I have half of the equation and I wish someone would write the other half as I would be a very poor judge of those feelings since I am not sure... exactly what it is that I am supposed to feel 100%. Don't get me wrong, I have felt it, but first of all not enough times to remember and second I am not sure if it is it... Kisses P.S. I will email you. You were right... I have just been too busy.
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11/2/2006 10:31 am |
Wow!! this should be required reading for every mouth that want to suck..
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11/2/2006 10:48 am |
Wow!! this should be required reading for every mouth that want to suck..
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Great post and great advice! I wrote a somewhat related post, Stop Fucking My Face, a few months ago. Not as comprehensive as yours, and from the perspective of the person sucking. Great blog, dude!
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11/8/2006 4:38 pm |
Wonderful blog... I have to add though... Make love to his dick.....slowly, taking every inch deep inside your mouth....change rythmssss but must importantly ....you must enjoy giving him the blow job....... I love to suck cock. I think its the most intimate thing a couple could expiernce other than intercourse........and always end it with swallowing his cum, or having him cum on the womans breast and have her lick it off as he watches....or a facial....lol each of know o should know what our men like so like NIKE JUST DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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11/9/2006 9:16 pm |
I wrote this one just for you!!!!!!! I awake early one morning; our legs are entangled with each others, my head had been resting on your shoulder with my arm draped over your chest. I roll over, stretching my arms and back; my legs are still wrapped with yours. I start to nestle back in beside you, when I feel a twitch occur beneath the covers, on my leg. I look over at you and you are still soundly asleep; a peaceful look upon your face and deep steady breaths of air make your chest rise and fall. Again I feel a slight twitching and realize that you are becoming aroused; this in turn, arouses me. I use my leg to massage the growing bulge in your shorts. I can feel the heat and hardness as I use my leg to press up and down on your cock. I disentangle my legs from yours and I slip under the covers to release your bulge from the binding shorts; as I gradually pull at the elastic band of your shorts, so not to wake you, I reach inside and gently pull out your cock and lift your balls out as well. Standing at almost full attention, under the covers, is your glorious cock. And all I want to do is slide it my mouth. I feel bad because you are still sleeping and I don't want to wake you, but I just can't resist the feel of your cock in my mouth. I'm curious as to how far I can get and not wake you. Before I lose my nerve, I slowly lower my mouth over your cock and wrap my lips around it. I feel it pulse and twitch in my mouth. Without making a sound, I begin to move my mouth up and down your shaft. Mmm, you taste so good. I can still smell the tangy aroma of our passions from the night before; and you taste even better. As I move my mouth up and down your shaft sucking fervently, in slow repetitive motions, a moan rumbles deep in my throat unable to escape my lips because I have put the entirety of your cock firmly in my mouth and throat. I can feel that my body is becoming eager for yours as another moan rumbles through me and this time it escapes from my lips as I withdraw your now glistening cock from my mouth. Guiltily I stop for a moment to assure myself that I have not rattled you from your slumber. As I listen, you are still steadily breathing as you rest comfortably; innocently unaware that I lurk beneath the covers. With your cock in sight, and standing fully upright, I lie on my back next to you and reach my hand down between my legs to pleasure myself. My fingers meander over my mound of curly fur, and reach down to my freshly shaven lips. My lips feel swollen and moist; I lightly smack my pussy, stinging my lips and making them swell even more. I slowly spread my lips apart with my fingers and explore; I find that I am very wet. A gooey layer of juice has covered my pussy; I reach down and shove a couple of fingers inside my sticky pussy and wiggle them around; I thrust them in and out over and over again. Oh, it feels so good! I slowly pull them out and lick my fingers clean; I taste wonderful, sweet and tangy. As I fondle myself further, I realize that my clit is engorged and hard and it is very sensitive to my touch, and I feel that I will cum before long. Needing to feel your cock inside my wet pussy hole, I dare myself to straddle your sleeping body and sit upon your rigid member. I wonder how I am going to manage to not wake you while I straddle you and get myself off. Still tucked away under the covers nestled next to your sleeping body, I carefully climb on top of you, taking extra caution not to jostle you too much, still not wanting you to wake up. I stealthily lift my body up and reach a leg over one side of you and begin to sit; I quickly slip your erect cock into my wet and waiting hole. It slides in without a problem and I sit determinedly on top of your body, with your cock safely inside of me. I sit up and wrap the sheets around me warding off the chill of the morning air. I shift my hips around trying to get you as deeply inside of me as it will go; hitting all of my spots as I fidget. I clench my muscles around you and relax. Knowing that any movement might jolt you awake, I take great care in using only my inner muscles to wind myself up to climax. I flex my muscle wildly around your cock; I reach down to pet my pussy, unable to resist wrestling with my clit. I lightly rock my hips, powerless against the feel of you locked deeply inside me. The need to explode is at my fingertips, and I take the time to flick and pinch my clit, sending me into an unbelievably strong and wild orgasm. It took ever ounce of strength in me not to yell and scream as I gushed all over you as I came. My muscles spasmed and juices from within me leaked out all over, making a puddle wear I sat. I look at the peaceful expression on your face as you continue to doze and I become stricken with guilt that I took advantage of you while you were asleep. In hopes of reconciling what I just did, I scurry to clean up my mess and wake you by pleasuring you orally. I carefully climb off your body cautious not to stumble over your raging hard on that is demanding more attention or slip in the tangy juices that I left drenched on your groin . I uncover my head and scoot up so that my head is now level with yours. I nuzzle into your neck, giving you soft, inviting kisses to your lips, neck and chest. Your eyes flutter open groggily, a smile spreading across your face shining through your eyes as they clear from sleepy dreams. You kiss me back brushing your tongue against my lips and parting them to reach the taste of my mouth. You begin to stretch, arcing your back and stretching your legs and arms as well. A deep yawn engulfs you and you again close your eyes trying to drift off to where you last left your sweet dreams. I continue to nuzzle and kiss you; I trail my kisses along your chest taking my time as I get closer to where I intend to spend my time pleasuring you. This time, wanting to wake you, I crawl under the covers once more and pull off your shorts completely. You are still very hard from when I dismounted just moments earlier. Your cock is straining to get attention and I plan on relieving you of every ounce of cum I can suck from you. I take the tip into my mouth, rolling it around with my tongue and nibbling lightly with my teeth; I hear you moan your approval. I plunge your cock deep into my mouth, my lips nestling in the wetness of your groin that I had left (and intended on cleaning up). I licked and lapped at the puddle that was left behind from when I gushed all over you, It tasted tangy and sweet, and my mouth was covered in the sticky goodness of my own cum as I bobbed and sucked to get you off and slurp up your hot and sticky goodness also. I took some time to suck on your balls, while my hand pumped your cock, keeping the stimulation going. I took one ball into my mouth and rolled it around with my tongue, letting it drop before sucking up the other ball to do the same. By this time, you are waking up and soon realize that this was no dream at all. You uncover my head to find me pumping your cock and sucking on your balls, you grunt as your body becomes aware of what is happening. You moan and thrust your hips at my face. I take my hand from your cock and place it firmly under your ass so that my fingers can flex and fondle the crack of your ass and my thumb can caress and tease your tight hole. My mouth hovers over your waiting straining cock and your throw your hips up and I swallow your cock deep in my mouth. My thumb is wiggling against your hole with rapidly movements and my mouth is rising and falling along your shaft, my lips tightly wrapped around your cock, securing a solid suction on the entirety of your rock hard cock. You moan and thrust your hips up and down, establishing an unyielding rhythm that will guarantee you to cum at any moment. I look into your vibrant eyes, which have become ignited with a passionate fire, urging you to cum. I can feel you twitch and throb as you buck and flex your body, moments before an orgasm takes over your body. With out losing rhythm my thumb slips just inside your hole, tantalizing all of those very sensitive nerves. Your body becomes rigid and your breathing becomes labored as you explode hot cum deep in my mouth, drowning me with the delightful taste of your cum. You reach down your hand to tangle your fingers in my hair and force my head to stay on top of your pulsing and ejaculating cock; I swallow all of your cum, moaning with each fresh shot of hot and creamy goodness. As the orgasm subsides, I gently pop my thumb from your ass and continue to clean up the mess that I had created. Again our juices combining created a delightful scent that was not only aromatic but tasty; I did my best to clean up every last drop of cum, yours and mine. When I was finished, I looked up at you and simply said, "Good morning". You replied by sitting up, leaning forward and planting a deep and passionate kiss upon my lips. You laid me down and removed my t-shirt, kissing my nipples as they became erect from your attention. You laid your body between my legs and began to kiss my body all the way down to wear the curly hair begins to grow. You looked up at me and said, "Now, it's my turn to make you cum!" I looked down at you adoringly and innocently while I spread my legs wide for you. Inviting you to make me cum . . . again!!!
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2sweet, what a great story. Thank you so much for adding your wonderful fantasy to my blog. I woke up this morning from a happy dream and just held my breath for a moment.......but you weren't there!
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11/13/2006 9:50 pm |
Thank you my dear friend.....lol you better watch what you wish for....one morning I might be there....lol...kissies my dear.
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I had a partner that wanted me to suck him so hard i kept thinking, "This had gotta freaking Hurt  ," not to mention it was hard work & no where near as enjoyable for me.He also loved having teeth dragged over the head of his cock so i guess it's each to their own. I love to love, pamper & dote when i'm able, the cock (Ooops Man) i'm teasing so i take time to enjoy what i'm doing... I enjoy oral so it's never a task & i think that really helps all round enjoyment. The spot with the un-sexy name you speak of, on the underside just under the head is a favorite spot of mine lol Yummy thoughts indeedy  I was also seeing a guy for a while that wasn't into receiving head, i couldn't believe this & me being me took it as a challenge hahaa Happy to report he was converted to almost addict status & i got the pleasure of treating him all the time It is really nice to be told what your doing feels great though. It's even good if you are told something doesn't feel so good, then you know & can stick to & work on what your partner really enjoys. Giving pleasure to your partner is an incredible feeling & heightens everything for the giver as well. Not to mention 10 fold response it can bring lol. It's always easier to give pleasure when you really enjoy what it is you are doing. The general rule of thumb for me that seems to work is, if i enjoy how my mouth feels doing what i do my partner he is usually is enjoying what i do too. Plus knowing i enjoy it has always pleased For the ladies that don't really get into oral they should try chocolate paints or maybe some sweetened whipped cream & get down & have yourself some dessert mmmmmmmm The rewards are wonderful Lickin lips Nice Post Dreamer !!! Kissu XXX
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Sneaky one Kissu - I almost missed this comment, it lovely to know you are delving around in the dark recesses of my.........blog?
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COLOR crimson]Delving is very Therapeutic Kissu XXX
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Delving is very Therapeutic Besides, i couldn't resist! Kissu XXX
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12/17/2006 8:32 am |
Wow, hon. That was great! You did a wonderful job of describing the feelings and sensations! Have always been curious as to what I'm doing really feels like to the man I'm with and you did a marvelous job of answering that!! {=}
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Wow, hon. That was great! You did a wonderful job of describing the feelings and sensations! Have always been curious as to what I'm doing really feels like to the man I'm with and you did a marvelous job of answering that!! {=}
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