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Orgasm; what does it really feel like?  

hotdreamer1000 64M
8677 posts
1/8/2008 5:49 am

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1/14/2008 1:20 am

Orgasm; what does it really feel like?


Okay girls, this is the big one!

I have described before on my blog how I feel when I come, how I feel a kind of swelling deep inside me, a tightening sensation in my groin between my hips, how the electric tingling sensations in my cock build towards a point when it really does feel like an explosive charge waiting to go off, like molten rock swelling under a volcano just before the lid blows off.

Then there is a magical few moments as I go over the edge, a heightened almost tingling sensation. All the muscles in my groin tense. If I try to tense them it comes quicker, but if I can completely relax it happens by itself and is so much better.

I am going to come, it can not be stopped, but it hasn't happened yet, it is still building, but already feels as if it is spreading and releasing too. Sometimes this moment lasts a fraction of a second, sometimes, some fantastic times with the most gorgeous of women, it can last ten seconds. My mind comes into play, I can almost feel the orgasm in my head when I am completely in touch with my partner emotionally.

Then suddenly there is a pumping spasm inside me and at the base of my cock, I feel the power of my groin force the come out of me, sometimes I can feel it force its way through the inside of my cock, a wonderfull feeling, like when you are desperate to pee, but different and a thousand times better. I can feel each squirt start deep down before punching out of me and at the same time the sweet spot is at its most sensitive, sending electric pulses of pleasure back down the shaft into my body as it rubs against your inner skin or tongue. The pumping goes on for some time, mainly diminishing, but perhaps every now and again a sudden extra spasm, until I begin to relax, the last oozing of come easing out of me, but still the gorgeous soothing feel of the sweet spot against you, calming me. My mind is a total blank, I realize I have had no thoughts at all for a few moments.

Too fast a movement at this stage is too much, but the softest gentlest touches feel like heaven. It is almost over, but in a gentle way I am still coming. Let me stay inside you if the rest of our bodies are comfortable. Keep sucking me gently if I am in your mouth. Gently gently, that feels so good baby. Mmmmmmmm........

There.... I have done my best to describe it for you. I know it is far from easy. Now I have got you warmed up I want you to tell me what it feels like for you. I have asked before and some have tried. But no one has managed to really give me a word picture of this amazing experience. But here you are, some of the sexiest, most eloquently gifted writers on the blogs. Surely one of you must be able to tell me what a woman really feels, when she comes?

zandigal 59F
13016 posts
1/8/2008 6:12 am

here's eloquent for you Dreemy.... holy crap! how can I possibly think now??? I'll have to get back to you on that.

Respond to every call that excites Your Spirit
~Rumi


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skierchick 60F
3948 posts
1/8/2008 6:05 pm

Hmmm, this is going to take some research. Let me get some fresh batteries and get back to you in the morning!

The one thing I will tell you that is the same is "My mind is a total blank, I realize I have had no thoughts at all for a few moments." NO THOUGHTS! And for me, that's miraculous. That never happens, unless of course, I'm having an orgasm. And then, every fiber in my body is focused on "that" feeling.

More after I do some research!

SkierChick


ShyWhisper2006 60F
15173 posts
1/9/2008 4:51 am

Wow..that was a great description....it is good to hear how it feels for males..given that I am not as experienced as I would like I shall write what it was like for me....
It is like a sinking into ones self...a drifting and slowly seeping out of your body..a pressure builds and builds and when you feel like it cannot feel any better in the world it surges..rushes to every pore and cell and nerve ending in your body..flashes of color, light and images rapidly replace thought and the thoughts if any are bizarre at times and oh so strange but they also increase the pleasure ..you feel that you want the male to enter fully..more than he is..fill you completely and then some..if possible his enter body and hold that presence within not to let it end..a tingling all over your body happens..from the crown of your head to your toes..like little sparks firing off on your skin..and any touch by the male only increases the feeling and the rush of the orgasm....the sounds and smells and feelings are all heightened to a point not believed possible and not quite able to be reached any other way...
It is like your skin is alive and wanting the pleasure and the release as well.
It takes hold of you and shakes you starting from within and then like your body is a rag doll in some giants hand ..your stationary but it is like the room is spinning and pulsating with each thrust into your slick moist opening.
You try to hold onto something because it feels like you are going to spiral out of the room ..like a balloon filled and not tied and being let go..you dig your hands ..nails into any part available and in reach..your surging forward at an incredible speed and velocity and no stopping it and not wanting to you barely breathe ..but know when it hits that it is going to be sooo good.
Now should the lover know and feel what and when it is necessary..a word ..a touch ... a kiss or suckle at the breast will send you over the edge...Your body convulses and bucks and jerks upwards wanting to sallow him whole and then some..wanting to stop but not wanting it to end..like a dam releasing a torrent of water it rushes forward unstoppable and taking everything in its path ..no longer lady like in verbalizing any communication..wanting more and more and not caring that the sounds erupting out of you are getting animalistic in nature and intensity..a strength in the muscles as they tighten and release flex and relax that it can move or throw both you and your partner to the floor if you are not already there.
It does not slow at times..it can spasm and give off aftershocks ..that make your whole body tremble and shake ..your weakened to the point of possibly a release of normal functions..like tears..or laughter...and sometimes..it is just the beginning because when it happens once and you come so wonderfully..you want more..and an evil lil grin and monster inside and within is awakened and needs more.


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
1/10/2008 1:07 am

    Quoting Frnds4Play:
    Thank you. I liked the way you describe cumming. I have asked and gotten some answers over the years, but what you wrote answers them all.

    I can now apprectiate better what it feels like for my man as he cums. He is not quiet so I have always gotten a sense of the pressure and then the release and afterwords his staying put and falling asleep inside of me.

    Kat
I'm glad I could help Kat, but what about what it feels like for you!?


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
1/10/2008 1:09 am

    Quoting zandigal:
    here's eloquent for you Dreemy.... holy crap! how can I possibly think now??? I'll have to get back to you on that.
Very eloquent, lol. Glad I got your mind working anyway.


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
1/10/2008 1:13 am

    Quoting skierchick:
    Hmmm, this is going to take some research. Let me get some fresh batteries and get back to you in the morning!

    The one thing I will tell you that is the same is "My mind is a total blank, I realize I have had no thoughts at all for a few moments." NO THOUGHTS! And for me, that's miraculous. That never happens, unless of course, I'm having an orgasm. And then, every fiber in my body is focused on "that" feeling.

    More after I do some research!
That whole "no thoughts" thing is great isn't it.....Sometimes there can be another period of no thoughts in the after glow for what seems like several minutes, then I suddenly realize that I have started thinking again. Maybe that's why the Frenh call it "the little death."
But more on the physical and emotional sensations please, I am relying on you skierchick!


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
1/10/2008 1:18 am

    Quoting ShyWhisper2006:
    Wow..that was a great description....it is good to hear how it feels for males..given that I am not as experienced as I would like I shall write what it was like for me....
    It is like a sinking into ones self...a drifting and slowly seeping out of your body..a pressure builds and builds and when you feel like it cannot feel any better in the world it surges..rushes to every pore and cell and nerve ending in your body..flashes of color, light and images rapidly replace thought and the thoughts if any are bizarre at times and oh so strange but they also increase the pleasure ..you feel that you want the male to enter fully..more than he is..fill you completely and then some..if possible his enter body and hold that presence within not to let it end..a tingling all over your body happens..from the crown of your head to your toes..like little sparks firing off on your skin..and any touch by the male only increases the feeling and the rush of the orgasm....the sounds and smells and feelings are all heightened to a point not believed possible and not quite able to be reached any other way...
    It is like your skin is alive and wanting the pleasure and the release as well.
    It takes hold of you and shakes you starting from within and then like your body is a rag doll in some giants hand ..your stationary but it is like the room is spinning and pulsating with each thrust into your slick moist opening.
    You try to hold onto something because it feels like you are going to spiral out of the room ..like a balloon filled and not tied and being let go..you dig your hands ..nails into any part available and in reach..your surging forward at an incredible speed and velocity and no stopping it and not wanting to you barely breathe ..but know when it hits that it is going to be sooo good.
    Now should the lover know and feel what and when it is necessary..a word ..a touch ... a kiss or suckle at the breast will send you over the edge...Your body convulses and bucks and jerks upwards wanting to sallow him whole and then some..wanting to stop but not wanting it to end..like a dam releasing a torrent of water it rushes forward unstoppable and taking everything in its path ..no longer lady like in verbalizing any communication..wanting more and more and not caring that the sounds erupting out of you are getting animalistic in nature and intensity..a strength in the muscles as they tighten and release flex and relax that it can move or throw both you and your partner to the floor if you are not already there.
    It does not slow at times..it can spasm and give off aftershocks ..that make your whole body tremble and shake ..your weakened to the point of possibly a release of normal functions..like tears..or laughter...and sometimes..it is just the beginning because when it happens once and you come so wonderfully..you want more..and an evil lil grin and monster inside and within is awakened and needs more.
Fantastic description, thanks whisper. I especially liked "You try to hold onto something because it feels like you are going to spiral out of the room ..like a balloon filled and not tied and being let go.." I have never heard it put like that before, but it does give an idea of what you are feeling. Well done, the other girls are letting me down badly so far!


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
1/10/2008 1:21 am

    Quoting  :

I think I remember reading this actually foxy, I will go and check, but if I remember you described them in terms of duration and intensity, and how they are acheived, which I have heard before, and seen first hand so to speak, but I am looking for a description of the actual physical feelings, which women seem to find very hard to describe.
Nice to see you by the way, and my apologies for not having visited you for a while.


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
1/10/2008 1:25 am

    Quoting  :

Lovely to see you ama, and a nice side-step! I really thought you would have the words to describe it for me. Perhaps if I search back through your blogs....to a time before your body was a royal mess!
You poor thing, I bet you think he was worth it though, don't you.


skierchick 60F
3948 posts
1/10/2008 9:24 pm

All right........no eloquent sentences or flowery words. It's a raw, screaming, blinding need. As I come close to an orgasm there are no thoughts but those of fulfilling this intense desire to reach orgasm. I don't feel any part of my body except my clit and g-spot. The need is so intense, the longing so desperate. I instinctually grab hold and pull my lover (or toy) into me. As I cum I loose the ability to breath. I loose the ability to see (I never have cum with my eyes open) I am sometimes able to form words (Like "Oh my god" or "yes!!!") but I never have any recolection of saying them afterwards. My entire body begins to convulse, clench, spasm, shake and buck. It is totally uncontrollable. I gasp for air as the orgasm takes over my body. And for me, it can last for a very long time, longer than I can hold my breath. And my pussy clenches down so tight and spasms. And there are no thoughts in my head. Just pure physical sensation. Amazing, incredible, fabulous physical pleasure. So intense and so magnificent that I want it again, and again, and again. And as soon as I manage to catch my breath, I'm usually starting on orgasm #2, and on and on it goes until I physically can't stand anymore.
Whew! I'd better go do some more research and make sure I've got that correct!
MUAH!


SkierChick


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
1/11/2008 12:54 am

    Quoting skierchick:
    All right........no eloquent sentences or flowery words. It's a raw, screaming, blinding need. As I come close to an orgasm there are no thoughts but those of fulfilling this intense desire to reach orgasm. I don't feel any part of my body except my clit and g-spot. The need is so intense, the longing so desperate. I instinctually grab hold and pull my lover (or toy) into me. As I cum I loose the ability to breath. I loose the ability to see (I never have cum with my eyes open) I am sometimes able to form words (Like "Oh my god" or "yes!!!") but I never have any recolection of saying them afterwards. My entire body begins to convulse, clench, spasm, shake and buck. It is totally uncontrollable. I gasp for air as the orgasm takes over my body. And for me, it can last for a very long time, longer than I can hold my breath. And my pussy clenches down so tight and spasms. And there are no thoughts in my head. Just pure physical sensation. Amazing, incredible, fabulous physical pleasure. So intense and so magnificent that I want it again, and again, and again. And as soon as I manage to catch my breath, I'm usually starting on orgasm #2, and on and on it goes until I physically can't stand anymore.
    Whew! I'd better go do some more research and make sure I've got that correct!
    MUAH!
Sounds like you really enjoyed your research, but I'm worried for your life if it gets any better than that!


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
1/11/2008 1:35 am

Thanks amakamaria - another neat sidestep, but a very good one. I have heard this before, but it is still a very funny and revealing monologue. See you again soon I hope.


rm_CurvyCat14 53F

1/11/2008 9:06 pm

I may passout..is about all I can say about it!


kick_on 56F
113 posts
1/13/2008 10:02 am

You know what it looks like when you drop a pebble into water as the ripples spread out? Well thats how my orgasms feel to me but with a massive riptide underneath the surface that pulls me with it into a sweet, sweeter, sweetest vortex. Take the ripples from the pebble splash and put a gigantic whirlpool underneath and thats getting closer.

I totally agree with the no thinking thing too, just before there's this huge need and a joyful feeling and just after there's a fantastic feeling of fulfillment and relaxing ( especially if there's squirting involved!) but right in the moment? No thoughts at all, just sensations.

Kisses xx


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
1/14/2008 1:19 am

    Quoting kick_on:
    You know what it looks like when you drop a pebble into water as the ripples spread out? Well thats how my orgasms feel to me but with a massive riptide underneath the surface that pulls me with it into a sweet, sweeter, sweetest vortex. Take the ripples from the pebble splash and put a gigantic whirlpool underneath and thats getting closer.

    I totally agree with the no thinking thing too, just before there's this huge need and a joyful feeling and just after there's a fantastic feeling of fulfillment and relaxing ( especially if there's squirting involved!) but right in the moment? No thoughts at all, just sensations.

    Kisses xx
Thank you for that terrific addition to the my research. I am honoured by your first ever post! (New to the site, or just don't usually comment on the blogs? )


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