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Something About Me
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Something About Me I am basically pretty happy, but I have a few problems in my life; things I don't know how to deal with and I pretty much go on dealing with them the same way I always have, which doesn't solve them but it avoids making them any worse. I am also as regular readers will know, a little prone to living too much in the past. If I was advising myself I would probably say "go on, dive straight in and make big changes and you will make it ok." But it is never easy to take your own advice. A woman with beautiful eyes, prefectly french-manicured nails and no panties once likened it to her situation, which she described as "standing on a big rock in the middle of a raging river: If I jump will I make it to the shore, or will I drown trying?" Well she jumped, and she didn't drown. But I am not a great swimmer. We shall see what happens....something usually does in the end. I did however learn something in the bath this morning. (And no skierchick before you ask it didn't have anything to do with the angle my cock stands up at, lol. ) Last night I saw the film "A Lot Like Love" on the TV. Not the greatest film ever, but I do like romantic comedies and I got into the spirit of it and really enjoyed it. To cut a long story short it is about a couple who meet occasionally over the years and have sex but do not realize until it is nearly too late that they are in love with each other. Amanda Peet is thoroughly gorgeous in it by the way, does anyone have her phone number? Anyway at one point the male character, played by Ashton Kutcher, is sitting on the beach talking to his brother about how he wants to get his business back on track and find somewhere to live etc before he finally tells Amanda Peet how he feels about her, and the brother says: "This is your life; now;...it doesn't wait for you to get back on your feet." I took notice of that. Then this morning in the bath, (I was in the bath remember... ) this guy rang in to the radio station and asked them to play a song, I forget what, which reminded him of his student days and he said "those were the days of my life, blah blah blah" and I thought what a stupid git - these are the days of our lives - whatever whenever, I want to treat everyday as the days of my life. I don't always manage to, but however much I love things which happened to me in the past, however much I write about past events and loves, life has so many great opportunities for me at the moment, and I have not failed to notice that. I need to get on and do things now to make the most of it. Without making any big changes of course! Lol. |
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This is exactly what I was thinking about the new year....2008 is going to be Me getting back out there... into the Now and Tomorrow. No more Yesterday. Can't wait to see that movie. Thanks, Dreemy...great post! Respond to every call that excites Your Spirit ~Rumi  ..
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1/3/2008 6:26 am |
If you figure out a way to make changes without making any changes, let me know! lol Sorry I can't think of any words of encouragement to offer, but as soon as I read "I did however learn something in the bath this morning. (And no skierchick before you ask it didn't have anything to do with the angle my cock stands up at, lol. )" I lost all ability to think about anything else! 
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This is exactly what I was thinking about the new year....2008 is going to be Me getting back out there... into the Now and Tomorrow. No more Yesterday. Can't wait to see that movie. Thanks, Dreemy...great post!
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If you figure out a way to make changes without making any changes, let me know! lol Sorry I can't think of any words of encouragement to offer, but as soon as I read "I did however learn something in the bath this morning. (And no skierchick before you ask it didn't have anything to do with the angle my cock stands up at, lol. )" I lost all ability to think about anything else!
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1/3/2008 8:56 am |
dreamer, I call it my safe zone ,, When I stay where im at instead of jumping off that cliff ,, I know that I cant swim , so in general terms , I stay in a safe zone ,, I to need to take a chance ,, Not stay in the past , its way to painful sometimes ,, i told someone this weekend that old habits die hard ,, old thoughts resurface ,, On a lighter note ,, next time im in the bath ,, your image of the angle ,, will most definatly be there  (I just have to tease you ,,, ) Country A friend is someone that reaches for your hand and touches your heart !
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dreamer, I call it my safe zone ,, When I stay where im at instead of jumping off that cliff ,, I know that I cant swim , so in general terms , I stay in a safe zone ,, I to need to take a chance ,, Not stay in the past , its way to painful sometimes ,, i told someone this weekend that old habits die hard ,, old thoughts resurface ,, On a lighter note ,, next time im in the bath ,, your image of the angle ,, will most definatly be there (I just have to tease you ,,, ) Country
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Very well put Willhe, lol. But it is already very comfy on the rock. But as you say, what might be waiting on the shore is what should help me decide whether to jump, the problem is that in life who ever really knows what the water or the shore is going to be like!? Oh well it's all part of growing up I suppose.
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Wow - you are trying to become chief temptress aren't you! Lol.
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Let go of your attachment to the outcome. In the final days of your life, do you want to be wondering "What would my life have been like, how would it have been different, if I HAD jumped off that rock?" SkierChick  
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Let go of your attachment to the outcome. In the final days of your life, do you want to be wondering "What would my life have been like, how would it have been different, if I HAD jumped off that rock?" Part of growing up is learning to take responsibility for your actions, and I would also have to answer the question; "what would my life have been like if I had been sensible enough to stay on that rock."
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Thanks sassicat - I know you understand exactly where I am coming from.
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I don't mind you lecturing me fpc, but I can't help thinking that there is a tiny little ulterior motive in your advice, Lol. I am a long long way from sitting wondering what might have been, and there has never been any shortage of "experiencing life" or carpe-ing the diem in my world!
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Dreamer said "what would my life have been like if I had been sensible enough to stay on that rock." You already know what life has been like staying on the rock. SkierChick
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