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demonicsexkitten 49F
5182 posts
6/9/2013 3:49 pm

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6/10/2013 8:04 pm
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Are you okay sharing? Maybe your relationship is casual "no strings" and you know there are others and don't care. Or maybe you have a "don't ask, don't tell" relationship. Perhaps you're in an open relationship.

How does that work? Do you have any ethical or moral struggles? Or are you truly "fine with it"?

I'm not good with sharing. I once even swore a lover to monogamy even though I was refusing to call us "in a relationship". And he was in open relationships before.

While one of my deepest, darkest fantasies involved 3 men at once, and I believe 3 men would be great (each gets 2 nights a week)... I am jealous and do not share. At least I don't WILLINGLY share.

Please, if you're comfortable talking about it, please share your mindset on this issue.
Myself? I'm a hopeless romantic, believe in True Love and happily ever after, and such apparently out-dated things like honor, honesty, loyalty, and other such things.

OK.. I'm going shopping now. Get ready for the week. Or go crawl into bed to mope and feel sorry for myself.

Take cere

partygald 41F
1963 posts
6/9/2013 8:07 pm

 I have a bf and am in relationships with a few others. There is my ex boss, a girl that I meet with occasionally, a couple and my ex bf. The ex boss and the married couple I have had relationships with for over a few years, even before I met my bf.

The bf wasn't comfortable with it in the beginning and we actually broke up early last year because of it. The irony of it was after we broke up, he started seeing his ex gf again, and continued to have something on the side with me. I guess something clicked in him and things didn't work out with his ex gf, and we got back together months after that. I'm cutting a long story short here cos the dynamics have got to be worked out and that, takes a long while. Anyhow, we now have a somewhat open relationship that works. We get involved in each other's lives, know our partner's partners and have even recently included my ex bf and another lady into the mix. It doesn't all happen at once, and takes a fair bit of work, and a LOT of communication. It's inevitable that somehow, sometime, one party within the complex maze of human relationship will get jealous. It's how the person handles it that dictates if there will be a bigger issue or not. Hope this helps
Just sharing my bit. Good luck!


demonicsexkitten 49F
10694 posts
6/9/2013 10:21 pm

 Thank you, all, for sharing It really is good hearing other views.

I'm unwillingly sharing because I haven't felt strong enough to walk away. Or attempt an ultimatum. I'm still trying to reconcile the person I thought I knew for 7 years and the one he apparently is. Whether he was that way all along, or somehow changed along the way, or whatever.


Han54boat 71M
11637 posts
6/10/2013 3:21 pm

 At my age, I don't ask. Yet, there is one which I spend most of my time. The problem is that I only see her once a week. That drives me crazy. I talk to another woman but it is not a big deal and not a FB/FWB.
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