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Blogs > LicIWill > Ramblings from a Rambler

To Please or Be Pleased.....THAT is the question!  

LicIWill 60M
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11/5/2006 1:30 pm

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To Please or Be Pleased.....THAT is the question!
How would you answer? I believe most would like to think that they like to Please, but when thinking about it, do you think that you like to BE Pleased more?? I have known those that do not like to lic, and I have known those that do NOT like to be lic'd......or at least don't get much out of it. I have known those that like to suck, but have also known those that do NOT like to suck. You CAN DEFINITELY tell when someone likes to lic or likes to suck!! Some believe that it is more fun to find out what pleases the other when in the moment. I, however, like to know what works and what doesn't BEFORE the moment. I don't like to waste my time on something that doesn't work. I, personally. am a Pleaser. By pleasing, I am pleased. What's best is when a Pleaser is with a Pleaser. WOW!! Doesn't get any better than that! Just have to avoid fighting over who gets to start LOL Pleasing is not just limited to the obvious lic'n and sucking......there are so many other things. It's in the touch......it's in the look....it's in actions.....and it's in the kiss. Are you a Pleaser? Are you one that would rather be Pleased? Is it more fun to find what works when in the moment or before? To Please or Be Pleased.....THAT'S the question!
CB_2 58F

11/5/2006 1:48 pm

 Well, I do like to please, but not half as much as I like to be pleased. Which works pretty well, as my guy is much more into pleasing than being pleased.

So we have a fun time in bed...
Blogito ergo sum.


rubrduck4 59F

11/6/2006 2:46 pm

 Me first!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


LicIWill replies on 11/6/2006 3:52 pm:
BE MY GUEST!!

FeelinFriendly2 54F
216 posts
11/10/2006 2:28 am

 I must admit i am a little bit of both. Sure i love too Please and know that i am pleasing someone really turns me on. But then again being with another Pleaser definately has its benefits and i know i really would not complain at all. And for me personally I like to know the likes and dislikes before i even get too that stage, helps too make things more enjoyable for both.


rubrduck4 59F

11/11/2006 10:03 pm

 Geesh, NO OPINIONS????? Me...I am a pleaser, but have found out lately its pretty nice to be pleased too!!!! **wink-wink**

Still I would rather please than be pleased, but that's just me................


LicIWill 60M
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11/12/2006 4:18 pm

 hmmmm, I guess most on here don't wish to share their secret!


sweetmimilove 58F
1093 posts
12/6/2006 8:06 pm

 When you get older, and it's tougher to do kalesthenics in bed, at least for me, I prefer for someone else to do all the work....hahahahahah. Sometimes I like to just lean over the bed so that I don't have to strain one muscle. lol But seriously, it's called 'taking turns.'


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