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Home Again - This Stranger in a Strange Land  

PurplePeach72 51F
5583 posts
8/15/2015 12:46 pm

Last Read:
8/30/2015 6:53 am

Home Again - This Stranger in a Strange Land

Well sweet pervs. Turns out Turkey doesn’t like Polyamory Date and I couldn’t get onto the site at all while I was gone. So you’re going to get a very long initial post when I get home. The week started like this.
Hope springs eternal but so does misery. Which one I’ve just guaranteed is going to be dumped on my head has yet to be seen? I flew into Turkey last Sunday to visit the Viking for the week. As you all know, the Mistress was still here. I tried really hard to be nice and keep my mouth shut but on our walk back from dinner I spouted off to her that her “free time” was up with my husband that if he was sincere in what he said about wanting to work on our marriage that she needed to know I was going to be here an awful lot and I was done tip toeing around her. I told her I’d given her 6 months to figure out what she wanted and I was done. She apparently didn’t understand a word (according to the Viking). I’m pretty damn sure she knew exactly what I meant.
He sent her on to the apartment while he blew a gasket at me. He immediately turned into a dick ready to walk away from our marriage. I told him I should have just stayed home and to take me back to the airport that I’d sleep there and get the next flight back so he could do whatever the fuck it was he needs to do with her. When he said I was driving him into her arms I had to walk away. He kept walking. I don’t even know where I went, I just turned in the opposite direction from him and walked. My vision went red and I had to dig my nails into my hand to keep me from saying or doing something really stupid. Eventually I just sat down on some random steps and cried. I was going to just catch a taxi until I realized I didn’t have my wallet, ID, passport, nothing but my phone (with an almost dead battery), my sunglasses, a hair<b> clip </font></b>and my inhaler. Luckily, I had put the apartment address along with military police and other emergency numbers into my phone. After I cried it out for a bit and realized he wasn’t going to go looking for me, that I couldn’t just go back to the airport and get a flight back, I plugged the apartment address in my phone. He did say he went looking for me, yelling my name until the cops started trying to ask him questions. Once I got back to the apartment I sat on the curb and texted the Viking to bring me down my carry on stuff and I’d have our friend Kelly come get me. He came down with a totally different attitude and said he it was over with the Mistress if that was what needed to happen for us to be back to working as a team and loving each other. I won’t make the same mistake I made in February again. She has to go. Question is, does he really see it, will he actually cut her out or is he just placating me because he doesn’t want to lose me? Time will tell I suppose.
He said he told her that they were over but she didn’t believe him and told him they could talk about it when he was less upset. Which says to me that she is going to be hard to get rid of. If he’s actually going to do what he said he would. He went to a lot of trouble to make sure that the people she met from his work community knew that we had overlapping time here together and she was just a friend. I’m sure some of them figured it out but from the way he described it there is plenty of plausible deniability. He’s inviting a bunch of the office over Friday for a housewarming party so they all meet me. I haven’t decided yet how I want to handle the inevitable questions but I’ll probably just be my normal brutally honest self, depending on who is asking.
He has been fucking the shit out of me since I got here. Not that I’m complaining but it is a bit unexpected. He says the sex with her is boring because the only way they can have sex is missionary. I’ve been bent over the couch, the recliner, the table and the end of the bed so far and we’re only 2 days into the week here. The intensity and frequency has been slowly decreasing.
I only have 2 days left here with the Viking. Since she left he’s been nothing but attentive and loving. I just pray it isn’t all an act after she left. We’ll soon see. We’ve booked 2 trips for Lil Bit and me to come out here to visit in Sept and Thanksgiving. I reminded him that we were going to need to figure out what we want to do for Christmas soon so the flights aren’t outrageously expensive. I am so dying to see some evidence of movement on his part with her.
The sex stopped abruptly Thursday and I left without a fucking. No signs that he has any intentions of keeping his word to me about getting rid of the Mistress but then again he did ask me to let him try to do it easily. It should be noted that I did NOT agree. I will continue to work on me and be happy. I have hope now that we have turned that critical corner where it was almost over. We both thought so this week. I went expecting to have a blow out with him and the Mistress resulting in him cutting me off. He didn’t think I would come at all and that would have ended it for him. He was really scared for me the night I walked off and he had no way to find me. We’ll see how long that feeling of remembering just how much I mean to him lasts.
I have a ton to write about the week there. I’m so happy to be back in the land of porn! I could NOT live there. More on that to cum. Here’s a sexy pic.
Kisses,
L



Kisses,
LA


hunterpt 62M
13507 posts
1/19/2016 8:53 am

welcome back, very sexy phto. Kisses


freakyfun19664 59M
2478 posts
8/19/2015 7:14 am

very sexy lady wow


39lawless 58F
6864 posts
8/18/2015 4:10 am

It's been my experience that when someone trash talks to me about someone else, they are quite likely trash talking me to others....I sincerely hope he isn't being two faced and telling each of you what he thinks you want to hear.

And I shuddered a bit with that piece about him wanting to break up with her easy...there is no easy with breaking up, But there can be a long dragged out back and forth. Again, I sincerely hope not.

I woke up on the wrong side of the bed so I'll leave it at that. Take good care of you...and you look fabulous!!!! xoxo

Always tell the truth
Use kind words
Keep your promises
Giggle and laugh
Be positive
Love one another
Always be grateful
Forgiveness is mandatory
Try new things
Say please and thank you
Say your prayers
Smile

~Author unknown


PurplePeach72 replies on 8/19/2015 6:57 am:
I too am very worried that he is just telling us both what we want to hear. I do have some minimal insight on what they talk about but obviously there's no way to know all that goes on or is said. I've been waking up on the wrong side of the bed for about 6 months now...lol...I'm doing my best to take care of me and Lil Bit. We are going to be fine and life here is good for us. Thanks for the compliment. Glad my progress shows. Hope life is treating you well my friend.
Kisses,
L

Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
8/15/2015 1:47 pm

wow another crazy ride for you. I wish you could cum with me!! It would very intense!!!! and forget about all the bullshit he is putting you through. I'm always here for you..sexy!!!


PurplePeach72 replies on 8/16/2015 7:55 am:
Oh if only life were that easy to fix my sexy friend! Someday teleporting will be a reality and we'll all be much nicer to each other because if not we can just beam on over to Leegs for the good life! I'm dreaming with you my sexy friend. Thank you for all the love and support.
Kissses,
L

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