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That looked so right
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That looked so right To wake up this morning and see my sleeping on a blow up bed in the living room. He came over last night about 10 and we went to sleep at 4 am. I have only seen him 5x in the last 18 months but he has just moved to Arizona. We have had a difficult relationship since he found out I was leaving his mother, and the times we did spend together we had little time to talk together. He had this fantasy that her and I had the ideal relationship that he would pattern his own after. And since his mom and dad were divorced (he was 10 when we married), he had held a lot of faith that things can work out between 2 people.The pending split up was also kept a secret from both for a long time and they felt deceived, wasn't what I wanted but I did choose to go along with it. And of course he saw the hurt in his mom while I was across the country doing my thing.Though he is an adult, the face to face times have been hard for him and there have been many more unreturned phone calls (the last one not returned was last Saturday)than calls. Though every time we would talk it would be for an hour or so. Have we addressed the issues we need to yet - no. Will we - in time.Is he ready now - not yet.But for him to call and say he would be in the area and could he come by, then ask to stay over - it was very good. I guess these are the baby steps that are needed to get him to the point of opening up - and make a decision how the relationship will be in the future - especially as far as an open one about my life and my having a relationship with someone else. He may be over next Tuesday night and I also told him to come by Saturday night for dinner, so we will see. When I woke up at 7 am - with 3 hrs of sleep - I knew I had to walk out and take a look at him. And it looked so right. This is the first post I have made this month, I keep wanting to "clean out the closet" and let out stuff about the marriage but have been too busy to put it down. I'm glad I started out with this one. Next best thing to perfect |
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I know you to will manage to make your relationship work, your to stubborn with obstacles to let this one stop you. hugs, opal
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11/15/2006 10:12 pm |
Fan, I remember my Dad telling me a story about when He and my Mom divorced. We were at my Aunt's house for Christmas and all of my siblings and I were in sleeping bags on the floor of the den, when he peeked in after we were all asleep. "It just felt right." I can relate. I am glad that you and your son are talking. 
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11/21/2006 1:59 am |
i hope you guys continue to become close baby step at a time if it need be. i'm glad you have the chance to work things out with him...have fun
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11/25/2006 5:28 pm |
Talking helps...when you take things slow....but you know...you need to stress that people don't always end up unhappy. HUGS~~~MANDY Always The Bitch
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Thank you all for your comments and good wishes Next best thing to perfect
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