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Sorry...I tried...  

ShyWhisper2006 60F
6498 posts
12/26/2006 10:44 pm
Sorry...I tried...


I saw a posting several weeks ago...asking who would be alone during the holidays ...I responded.
I was asked to participate in something to spread a little bit of "good cheer"..."smiles"...and "well wishes" to others.

I agreed as I knew I would be alone and given that I sleep less than anyone I know of...I thought what better way to extend my hand to others in the spirit of the season.

It has been so very hard for me, to get into the spirit this year...more so than years past.
I tried...I tried real hard to be ok and be in the :spirit " of things...but couldn't.
Then the response came for me to be a part of something fun and nice...I thought.

I did not do it to gain popularity...notr to "" myself for comments...nor to others...I just wanted to make others smile and maybe have a little laugh.
I meant well and meant no disrespect to others in any way....I know how hard this time of year is for me and for so many others. If I was a little more able or capable..I would have made my own personal verse or message of well wishes..but I had not.

I read each and every blog that I posted to..and I tried really hard to post the carol to a blog posting that was not dealing with something bad or sad. I tried to add a comment along with my posting.

I tried to make someone smile that maybe was feeling as I was/ am and let them know that someone cared enough to stop by on the holidays.

I tried.

I apologize to all that felt it innappropriate and demeaning and disrespectful to their blogs.

I am sorry and meant no harm and did not realize that my intentions,would be seen in any other way than in in goodness and care for others.

I am saying here and now to all those that wish to...please delete the carol from your blog...I cannot do it from my end and I would if I could.

I may delete the post on my blog as soon as I respond to all those that came by and left a comment of thanks.

Thank you to those that felt my genuine feelings behind this lil endeavor. I am glad I made you smile.

Again I do apologize...for trying to be with others in some form this holiday...I will know better than to try to do this again...

Sincerely,
Shy

cyberluvr1957 67M

12/26/2006 11:37 pm

awwwwwwwwww shy, you don't and never have bothered me in the least, actually I would love too meet you for real but, we live so far apart. Anyway if your gonna be alone for New Year's Eve, then let me invite you too my blog for New Year's Eve, I'll look for you at 6pm, drop by and I'll give ya a hug.

~~~Have Condoms, Will Travel~~~


.......Stay Happy, Stay Safe, Stay Well........


ShyWhisper2006 replies on 12/28/2006 2:27 am:
*hugs* thank you cyber...I will try to remember the time ...as i am in a different zone...but I would love to spend time with you that night...*hugs*

BRONZEHALO 54M

12/27/2006 12:14 am

Hi Shy, I'm sorry one or two people ruined the return of good spirit I know this was done in. Please don't let them get away with it. If someone has been insulted or whatever by something this innocent, they're on the WRONG site, and I'll be happy to tell them so. Everyone here knows how you are, and that you wouldn't hurt a fly. Enjoy your holiday and know that you made a lot of people happy with this. (including me, who was/is alone for the holiday)
Hugs
Tom

Bronzehalo 2007


ShyWhisper2006 replies on 12/28/2006 2:28 am:
*smiles*...Thank you Bronze...I meant well...and just wanted to be with others ...*hugs*

BRONZEHALO 54M

12/27/2006 12:21 am

OOOOOOOOK, I just looked through your 78 comments for the caroling, and they're ALL wonderful. "you made my day" "Thank you so much", just on and on. Whoever complained about this can KISS MY ASS ! Jesus, you brightened 80 lives, all by your own work. Be proud and don't you DARE delete a damn word. Time to stand up for the nice people and let the assholes go ELSEWHERE !

Bronzehalo 2007


ShyWhisper2006 replies on 12/28/2006 2:29 am:
*blushes*...thank you bronze...you are a good friend to have...*hugs*

PixieKittySC 68F
1446 posts
12/27/2006 1:02 am

Shy *BIG HUGS*...I think it was a wonderful thing that you and the others did. I'm sure it brighten many people's day when they saw you carol...it sure did mine Don't let a few ungrateful people ruin something so wonderful and thoughtful.

Pixie


ShyWhisper2006 replies on 12/28/2006 2:30 am:
*smiles*...Thank you Pixie...that means a lot to me *hugs*

PixieKittySC 68F
1446 posts
12/27/2006 1:12 am

    Quoting BRONZEHALO:
    OOOOOOOOK, I just looked through your 78 comments for the caroling, and they're ALL wonderful. "you made my day" "Thank you so much", just on and on. Whoever complained about this can KISS MY ASS ! Jesus, you brightened 80 lives, all by your own work. Be proud and don't you DARE delete a damn word. Time to stand up for the nice people and let the assholes go ELSEWHERE !
Bronze....*BIG HUG* for you too...I SOOOOOOO AGREE WITH YOU.... it is time to stand up for the nice people

*puts on steel toed boots*

Pixie


ShyWhisper2006 replies on 12/28/2006 2:31 am:
*giggles*...yikes...now there is trouble brewing...lol
*hugs* thanks Pixie your so sweet

mmmlike2taste 48M

12/27/2006 1:14 am

Shy, no offence was taken by me for any of the carols I got, I thought they were great fun! But I know what it's like to do something out of fun and trying to spread a little happiness, only to find people up in arms and outraged. My sympathies, and I hope that you continue to spread goodwill and happiness, despite this.

Thanks to all who voted for me!
AND THE WINNER IS

~~~~

[post 2692868]


ShyWhisper2006 replies on 12/28/2006 2:32 am:
*smiles*...oh mmlike2taste...thank you...I was happy doing it..and just wanted to make one other smile and know they were thought of...*hugs*

sidechickneeded 58M
13965 posts
12/27/2006 1:56 am

Shy, your apologies are not “accepted” over at my place, you have nothing to be sorry for in my sleepy red eyes……..from one night owl to another, stop in anytime and leave me what you want, the red carpet is always yours dear. Rob

“I am not a teacher, but an awakener”
Robert Frost


ShyWhisper2006 replies on 12/28/2006 2:37 am:
*smiles* my fellow night owl...thank you that means alot to me...I will be sure to do so *hugs*

Ellora2006 54F

12/27/2006 2:53 am

Shy,
I wouldn't change a thing on your blog. If they want to remove things from their blog, then that is their choice. I think it was a beautiful idea, though and I just wish you lived closer, so that we could all get together in "real time" during the holidays. My "little whisper" might have enjoyed it, too.
Big Hug!
Ellora


ShyWhisper2006 replies on 12/28/2006 2:40 am:
*smiles*...Thank you Ellora...that would be nice..to have the lil whispers get together as well ...*hugs for you both*

citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
12/27/2006 7:44 am

It was a lovely gesture, thank you for sending me the carol and making me smile

cit


ShyWhisper2006 replies on 12/28/2006 3:05 am:
*smiles*...Thank you citizen...it was my pleasure to stop by and visit you *hugs*

piercednshavedmn 59M
4575 posts
12/27/2006 7:46 am

Shy

Your efforts were apppreciated by the vast majority of us. You did nothing absolutely nothing wrong.

~~warm hugs~~

Thanks again

MJ


ShyWhisper2006 replies on 12/28/2006 3:07 am:
*smiles*..Thank you Pierced...it means alot to me...I know I should have disregarded it but...it hurt because I meant well..you are most welcome for my visit *warm hugs returned*...

Intensity4U 59M
7432 posts
12/27/2006 8:29 am

Hey Shy Your comments were genuine... and some people are just weird. Even those weird enough to have been offended should be able to understand that people wanting to express their happy holiday wishes to a broad number of others are going to do it with a repetitive message - you even joined up with others to share the thought. I don't get why it would be offensive - but some people have to be contrary to make themselves feel more important I suppose.

I thank you for the smile and hope you had a Merry Christmas. ~hugs~


ShyWhisper2006 replies on 12/28/2006 3:08 am:
*smiles*...Thank you Intensity..your most welcome for my visit and the smile...*hugs to you as well

BadAssBlonde1 64F
4988 posts
12/27/2006 11:07 am

Shy,

I am unsure of what happened and really do not care for others that are not appreciative of someone's kindness. It was very kind of you to think about me and mine. Thank you. Bright Blessings for 2007! Don't let others bring you down darling. We can all do that by ourselves. So, on this bright lovely day in the South ... I'm just gonna pick you up and spin you. All you have to do is go ... Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee and smile that lovely smile. Again, thank you.

For all Time,
Lady Hunter {=}


After all the sex is gone, there is the mind - Lady Hunter / BAB

Copyright © House of Lady Hunter 1998-2009


ShyWhisper2006 replies on 12/28/2006 3:11 am:
*smiles warmly*...Oh Lady Hunter...you have no idea what your lil action did for me...it touched me deeply as it reminds me of a time of innocence that I still carry with me...thank you
You are most welcome for my visit and I thank you as well *hugs warmly*

ironman2769 58M  
12877 posts
12/27/2006 3:03 pm

I thought it was a very nice gesture on your part. There's no way that anyone could find it offensive. I thougth it was very nice indeed. I made a few rounds and just posted a littlw Merry Xmas symbol. Most everyone has posted a Merry Christmas entry so it was approriate. So why would anyone be offended by your post?

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ShyWhisper2006 replies on 12/28/2006 3:13 am:
*smiles*..Thank you ironman...yes I enjoyed your message to me...it was very sweet...I don't claim to know why others react the way they do...I just know me...and for now ...it is best *hugs*

taliesin52 71M

12/27/2006 4:23 pm

Shy.. Please don't apologize or feel like you've somehow done something wrong..when spreading a little cheer and good feelings is wrong, then we need to just turn out the lights and declare the party over..
I loved the carols that you and the other carolers left, on my blog, and on the others that I visit...it was fun to see what was going to be there..
While I wouldn't expect you to call out the complainers, I wish you would..it sounds like I'm not the only one who would like to pay them a little visit....I'm with Bronze on this one..
Enjoy the pleasure of spreading some cheer and doing something that was fun..


ShyWhisper2006 replies on 12/28/2006 3:18 am:
*smiles*...Thank you taliesin...I am not one to point out the ones that displayed their disapproval to me....it is not how I am...I rather just think of them kindly and wish they find joy in their lives and have the support from others as I do...thank you ...it was fun for me to do this *hugs warmly*

peachy815 51F

12/27/2006 5:55 pm

merry x mas and happy new year too


ShyWhisper2006 replies on 12/28/2006 3:19 am:
*smiles*...thank you peachy...Merry xmas peachy and have a wonderful new year as well *hugs*

Sailor376 70M
2284 posts
12/27/2006 10:15 pm

I liked the Carols. Do it again next year. Yes there are going to be a couple of people thinking otherwise. Tough.

If 100 people received them and 90 were not in favor. For the ninty it is a ho hum or ignore. The ten liked it, needed it. Still worth it.

The actual figures are more likely to be ninty positives and nine neutral and one Scrooge. Let Scrooge do his own deletions, you turn a deaf ear to his poop.

Dean


ShyWhisper2006 replies on 12/28/2006 3:27 am:
*smiles*...Thank you so much Sailor...it means a lot to me...I appreciate the all the comments recieved...and if only one smiled...it was sooo worth it...if only one did not feel so alone...it was well worth it...and I would/will do it again in a heart beat...*whispers and giggles*...did you really say poop on my blog?

ShyWhisper2006 replies on 12/28/2006 3:27 am:
oh and lots of warm hugs as well

rochard163 60M

12/27/2006 10:54 pm

shy,dont be sorry for having a good heart and best wishes for people thats what makes you a little bit better than others.


ShyWhisper2006 replies on 12/28/2006 3:31 am:
*smiles*...rochard...thank you so much...I would never think of myself as better than anyone...I am just me and just want to be happy and be there for others if I am able to *hugs*

cyberluvr1957 67M

12/28/2006 8:59 pm

    Quoting cyberluvr1957:
    awwwwwwwwww shy, you don't and never have bothered me in the least, actually I would love too meet you for real but, we live so far apart. Anyway if your gonna be alone for New Year's Eve, then let me invite you too my blog for New Year's Eve, I'll look for you at 6pm, drop by and I'll give ya a hug.
I failed too mention the last time I was here---------------------this is your blog, you say what ever you want on your blog, if certain people do not like what you say, well they can just go visit another blog, don't SHY away from putting here what is on your mind!!

~~~Have Condoms, Will Travel~~~


.......Stay Happy, Stay Safe, Stay Well........


ShyWhisper2006 replies on 12/29/2006 1:18 am:
*smiles*...Thank you so much cyber...so sweet of you to say...I will try my best to do so from now on...*hugs*

Whispersoftly5 59F
15173 posts
12/28/2006 11:24 pm

Shy, it was so sweet and made me smile. Please don't let this make you sad. Forget any negative responses you received and know that you made many people feel very special. Thank you so much sweetie! Hugs and kisses to you!!! {=}


ShyWhisper2006 replies on 12/29/2006 1:20 am:
*smiles*..Thank you whispersoftly...I am glad that I made you smile along with others...it was my intention...You are most welcome dear *hugs and kisses * to you as well

ShyWhisper2006 60F
15173 posts
12/30/2006 2:01 am

    Quoting  :

Oh moz...did I not get to your blog with my carol?...I tried to get to all the ones that have visited me in my blog and all those that I ran across...I am so sorry...I can make it up to you perhaps?
*hugs*
Thank you for stopping by...and my apologies for not making it to yours...i went to so many and you would be one that I would most definitely want to stop by at...*hugs*...Take care and you are considered ...in my books


ShyWhisper2006 60F
15173 posts
12/30/2006 2:04 am

    Quoting  :

*hugs*...n2 you are a sweetie...thank you so much and it is truly appreciated *hugs*
I am glad that you liked them, it made me happy to extend myself like that to others
Talk to you soon *smiles*


warmandsexy52 71M
13158 posts
12/31/2006 1:48 am

Shy sweetie, it was all part of the festive fun, and you shouldn't feel bad about it. I am keeping all the carols in my comments. It was a generous gesture from the heart, fully well-intended and equally well received.

{=}

warm xx


ShyWhisper2006 60F
15173 posts
12/31/2006 2:15 am

    Quoting warmandsexy52:
    Shy sweetie, it was all part of the festive fun, and you shouldn't feel bad about it. I am keeping all the carols in my comments. It was a generous gesture from the heart, fully well-intended and equally well received.

    {=}

    warm xx
*smiles*...Thank you warm...I appreciate it..it happens sometimes that my sensitivity gets the better of me...I am glad that you liked them *hugs*


ShyWhisper2006 60F
15173 posts
1/2/2007 9:01 am

    Quoting  :

*smiles*...Thank you fun...and thanks for visiting my blog...I appreciate your comment...it means alot to me

*hugs*


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