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Multiple love... This is going to be quick but I think it's an interesting observation. I usually sit in the showroom at work in the morning, turn on the giant TV and eat my breakfast, have a cup of coffee and watch the news before anybody else gets in. I saw a promo for the Batchelorette this morning...the woman was blowing up, in tears and saying "I don't know how I can be so in love with 3 people"... If you read my blog on the regular...you know I am a hopeful Polyamorous guy. I've not figured it out yet but...like I said...I'm hopeful. So...my point is...I think it is ao very easy to love more than one person at a time. Although it's complicated, I think it's certainly not an unreasonable undertaking. 3 people who love each other can make it work and think of all the highs you can have. Sure...it's triple the issues but I think if you choose wisely and put everything out in the open from the get go...It can work... My vacation, last week, with one beautiful open minded, intelligent person could only have been more fun with a third person. Sure...it would have been a different dynamic but...the conversations would have been at least a third more informative. The sex...well...I couldn't have gotten better...but it would have been different... Yeah...so...I really think 3 is the way to go...I gotta figure that out. What say you? Do me a favor...go look at one of my other posts and make a comment... please... |
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i trust you... and i am coming... 
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Oh, and watching anything to do with that show sucks brain cells right out of your head....I'm just saying.  Always tell the truth Use kind words Keep your promises Giggle and laugh Be positive Love one another Always be grateful Forgiveness is mandatory Try new things Say please and thank you Say your prayers Smile ~Author unknown
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There is something about the intimacy of two that cant be beat. I would never want to lose that. So adding a third, to me, is more in addition to rather than instead of. From personal experience, the energy of three can be wonderful (and completely different) than two and I agree with the previous poster, more complicated. Two people on the same page is challenging....three is exponentially tougher. When it works though, its fabulous! Always tell the truth Use kind words Keep your promises Giggle and laugh Be positive Love one another Always be grateful Forgiveness is mandatory Try new things Say please and thank you Say your prayers Smile ~Author unknown
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that's hard to say... i've never considered it - outside of just sex... guess, you won't know until you try... depending on the man - i'd be willing to try anything Come on Nik... I'll show you...right? Do me a favor...go look at one of my other posts and make a comment... please...
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that's hard to say... i've never considered it - outside of just sex... guess, you won't know until you try... depending on the man - i'd be willing to try anything
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You're fooling yourself if you actually believe poly-amory will work long-term. Too many dynamics, and women typically get jealous in these situations. I say not worth it, even in an ideal situation because it's not sustainable long-term. Finding one person for a long-term relationship is hard enough. ...but I don't know what your standards are.  "My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur
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