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It is Sunday, again.  

stars_light4U 66F
4636 posts
10/8/2017 4:31 pm
It is Sunday, again.


I am always sad on Sundays.
The day I used to always call my mother until she passed away in 1998. That seems like a long time ago now.
Then Sundays became the day to phone my oldest . But she isn't always home to phone..
Today I am out at the farm.
Ole grouchy ate everything I made for him and everything I brought him. Starting at square one again.
No thanksgiving day for me.
Tomorrow is our 35th anniversary.
Do you celebrate a marriage filled with fighting? This fighting affected the deeply. They are scarred for life.
35 years that took forever to pass.
I told one of my friends and she kept repeating 35 over and over again and congratulated me over and over again. She got married in her older years and I think it's only been a few years for her.
I feel well congratulated now.
So..onward and forward.. I wonder if we will be still together 5 years from now.
Have a good enough Sunday, Ok?
Gentle hugs
Stars


Looking forward to a good year ahead!!

Stars_light4U


stars_light4U 66F
3808 posts
10/8/2017 4:38 pm

35 years is a long time to be married..and if you are married to someone that yells and screams, stomps around, slams doors, breaks things, throws things, etc. Then it's even longer. He has slowed down on the anger part. He takes two happy pills every
Day and it makes him chuckle at weird times. Still it's better than it was before.


Looking forward to a good year ahead!!

Stars_light4U


LadyLuck2 67F  
9091 posts
10/8/2017 4:56 pm

I was married to someone who yells and screams, stomps around, slams doors, breaks things, throws things, verbally abuses people including his own children and grandchildren and commits adultery while putting on a holier than thou facade. Then I realized that life is way too short and not a dress rehearsal. He was stealing my life and my happiness! I refused to enable his behavior. i walked away, divorced his ass, and never looked back.

Never ignore those who care for you
you will have lost diamonds
while you were collecting stones


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
10/8/2017 5:17 pm

I hope you find a way to make things better.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


jaxmax18 60M

10/8/2017 7:40 pm

I feel so bad that you have to go on with such a person - wish i lived closer to give you that hug - regards, Jax


stars_light4U 66F
3808 posts
10/8/2017 9:42 pm

    Quoting LadyLuck2:
    I was married to someone who yells and screams, stomps around, slams doors, breaks things, throws things, verbally abuses people including his own children and grandchildren and commits adultery while putting on a holier than thou facade. Then I realized that life is way too short and not a dress rehearsal. He was stealing my life and my happiness! I refused to enable his behavior. i walked away, divorced his ass, and never looked back.
Wow..
No kidding..it was the right thing to do...to divorce that guy.
I stayed
...but I now have my own home in the city and he lives on the farm. He is on 2 happy pills a day and went to counselling. So far he is a changed man. I'm not moving back though!!


Looking forward to a good year ahead!!

Stars_light4U


stars_light4U 66F
3808 posts
10/8/2017 9:42 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    I hope you find a way to make things better.
Me too


Looking forward to a good year ahead!!

Stars_light4U


stars_light4U 66F
3808 posts
10/8/2017 9:44 pm

    Quoting jaxmax18:
    I feel so bad that you have to go on with such a person - wish i lived closer to give you that hug - regards, Jax
Thankyou Jax...
I need all the hugs I can get.
But truthfully he is in happy pills now, and went to counselling. I guess time will tell if he really changed or not.


Looking forward to a good year ahead!!

Stars_light4U


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
10/9/2017 3:25 pm

Hope you can stay happy.....stay on the ridge!
31 years here but no throwing or breaking things.
Too bad there is no hotline to Heaven! I'd use it myself!


stars_light4U 66F
3808 posts
10/9/2017 11:01 pm

    Quoting lok4fun500:
    Hope you can stay happy.....stay on the ridge!
    31 years here but no throwing or breaking things.
    Too bad there is no hotline to Heaven! I'd use it myself!
Happy Thanksgiving, Lol
Things are better recently..
This works pretty well as a hotline to friends.
♡♡♡


Looking forward to a good year ahead!!

Stars_light4U


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