*My messages aren’t going through on here, so if you want me to get back to me, leave me your screen name on another platform Like K** or snap. 5’7, fit, with a big ass and small tits, long brown hair, and blue eyes. I’m quirky, creative, and a little shy at first. As far as what I’m looking for… that’s a little more complicated. I’m not exactly sure. As an attractive, fit woman, it’s easy to find guys for basic hookups. I’m not looking for that. I am sexually submissive and into some forms of bdsm, but not the masks, leather, and extreme pain sort of thing. To be honest, I find that stuff a little cheesy. I’m much more turned on by psychological control and degradation. I’ve been horny as all hell lately, and I keep fantasizing about strangers. Strangers groping me and caressing me. Strangers reading me, realizing how horny I am, and then taking control of me. When i get myself off, it’s almost always to thoughts of me or other women being exposed, humiliated, and degraded, usually with other people in the room watching or participating. I feel like these endless thoughts and desires are consuming my mind more and more, and becoming a major distraction. I’m hoping that if I can find ways to indulge some of them, I might be able to focus on other things.

My Ideal Person As far as physical traits go, I’m pretty open. I’m cool with people that are older or younger than me, and people of all races and ethnicities. You don’t have to be incredibly attractive, but I can’t be actively turned off by your appearance.

The other qualities that I’m looking for are harder to define. It would be best if the person is intelligent and intuitive, not because I want to have scholarly conversations with them or anything, but because so much of what turns me on involves psychology and the ability to read people. To satisfy what I want, a wholesome guy looking for fuck buddies isn’t going to cut it. I need someone with some edge and a dark side. I need someone who is very comfortable taking control. If I feel like someone is going against their instincts and trying hard to play a role that isn’t suited to them, I won’t get turned on. Self-confidence is extremely important, as well.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage, being slapped, Exhibitionism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

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