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Erotic straight male photography - hoooow to do it?!
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Erotic straight male photography - hoooow to do it?! It's really difficult to get tips on what to do with photos on a site like this. The quality sort of drops quite fast when people are trying to see what others are doing and if the first set of photos were poor, so will be the rest of them. Any artists among you, now it's time to snap back to what you are and start thinking from your authentic expression and uplift this site! Something that we can see here all the time that you MIGHT WANT TO kick to the curb to set yourself apart positively, and, considering how the male-female ratio favors women, you might want to use a few tricks: 1. Close ups of penises. Although I love a good cock and I do want to see them, there's a difference between an erotic shot of a cock and a documentative one.  Also, penis closeups as your primary photo is a worse idea than no photo at all... And all women say this, all men find this hilarious, but still that's the norm here.Alternatively, if you don't want to show your face, choose ANY other body part for the primary photo. Hands are very erotic, man's neck and shoulders are a huge turn on to many, the obvious answer of the trained abdomen is a sure-fire winner, a bicep works, and, if you can get some artistic, beautifully thought out shot of your forearm, that would probably be a delicious shot even when you're not trained to perfection - but this requires a bit more artistry as it's not exactly the easiest body part to photograph. Forearm, your favorite watch or bracelet should you wear one, there's a few ideas. If you do something with your hands, (like play the guitar, whoa,) you could use a close up of your hand at work. 2. Shaved cocks I already complained about this one myself... as a girl, I get a lot of compliments for a partially hairy lady parts, and if there are that many guys who love a bit of hair left, I trust there'll be tons more women who prefer a hairy guy. Trimming is cool and desirable, even, (you know those hair trimmers you'd usually use to crop the head? Yeah, try those with one of those attachments rather than go full bald with a razor.) This is not directly about photos, but a bald cock is a little babyish, particularly a guy with a few extra pounds would probably do without further softening and connotations to a baby boy. 4. If you dare, show your face, PLEASE! I understand this isn't possible for all of you, but if you run your own company, market to the perverts! Even fractions of the face will be welcome, maybe your chiseled chin with a bit of a scruff, your lips that girls love, your ear and cheek photographed from behind with you slightly looking over your shoulder... 3. The top on, pants off look... Careful with that one. Although it may work, it is a difficult look to pull off, it works a little better for women, but even for us it is questionable. I've got a couple of shots like that myself, but I am not sure they actually work too well. However... Exposing those bits works alright, just... with a bit of thinking. It's a tough look, even for really good looking and well-trained guys. 4. Try not to over-do "the sexy" approach... There are some things that should have died a horrible, painful death by now, and all speedo-style underwear should have gone up in flames already, and every male thong variation ever invented.  I know this breaks every Mediterranean male heart, but the truth has got to be said.  So. Calvin, I'm sending you some more customers of the Mediterranian and South-American background. Alternatively, just quit wearing underwear and go commando. (Oh if the specific pant you've got is too lose for the cock, like it leaves... Space. Eh. Yeah. Bad. Just as a nod to those of you who feel like the cup section can get a little grand-fatherly sometimes, yeah, it can do that if it's measured for a larger guy, there's no reason to emphasize that fact.) And also boxer shorts were still cool in the early 90's, but those times have passed. (It was also the boxer shorts that kicked the speedo-style out of the mix, so if you're still in speedo's that was the 80's when the latin lover boys got their reputation lifted as the ultimate lover, and although I'll still dine on my knees for some Italian any day of the week, I'll have to close my eyes when the speedos are flashed. Also, the white cotton socks are very much from the 80's, so it's time... It's time.)Some poses.... There's a collection of poor to terrible poses for men out there already, so I'm just going to suggest a few things... 1. Girls maybe erotic goddesses, but please, as a guy... don't try to be a girl. Masculinity is what you are to a woman. Men don't naturally curve their hips like women do, they might stand on one leg, but they should not be pushing the hip out if they are in their own self. I understand why you do it, but don't bother. You're hot the way you are, the female gender is the one that needs to contort to be just hot enough. LOL.2. Try to be as closely you as you can, be you, but naked/partially dressed, yeah? You know how you like girls genuine, we like you genuine, too. The less you pretend, the better. Just toy with who you are in real life and do the same thing naked for photos. (Oh god I just pictured my favorite guitarist playing a show naked and I think I just freaking died a little. In a good way.) Even if you want to keep your identifiable work stuff out of the picture, go without it, but remember who you are, lover boy.  You are sweetest and the most delicious the way you are... And a little ridiculous trying to be someone else... And this is not to say "aaah fuck quit hoping to be better than you are, loser" but to say that whatever you are is different to what someone else is and that energy is beautiful in itself - also, the more you get to know who you are, the more you will fall in love with yourself and your sexuality, and the more women will love you. As a general rule of thumb, don't photograph yourself in positions that you wouldn't take while fully dressed and in the company of other men. Imagine yourself fully dressed, while taking photos - gives you confidence and stops you from "acting gay". (And if you feel awkward about taking photos, just pretend like this is perfectly normal. "I am sitting here with my cock out. Fully normal, lol.") 3. OK. For a sexy photo, take your underwear off but get back into your favorite pants. Whatever you feel the sexiest in - what you would wear on a date, most likely. Wear that. If you are a t-shirt guy, leave the t out of this one, but if you like buttoned shirts, wear it opened up. Now... Open the fly and show us what you've got there for us. 4. Naked shots that seem to work quite well is a guy sitting up with his cock in his hand, rather than laid back or partially supported. Like the position Every Girl avoids because our tummy would push out like mad and make us look twice as fat as we actually are. The position we avoid getting into when we're on a date, as we take measures to sit up straight... right? Did you notice? No? Good, you weren't supposed to. So... Guys can use that very position that girls must avoid at all cost, even stockier guys can do that, no probs. 5. Avoid all positions that make you seem submissive - unless you are a sub. Usually, this means leaning forward rather than leaning backward. Technical stuff 1. Take full body shots or full shots, and then CROP the part for this site later, if you want to stay anonymous. Then share the full shot privately if you are more comfortable with that. There's a lot of simple apps that will do it. 2. Because the mobile phone camera is meant for photographing landscapes or people in full sunlight... Or at least tends to be calibrated for high color contrast or something, it picks up every unflattering pump and a curve and highlights it, or rather, creates a shadow where there is none... At least some cameras do. Your mirror image may be completely different to what your camera shows. That is why I like to use a slight filtering for the photos, to bring them back A LITTLE BIT to reflect reality rather than deceive. An app I do a slight retouch on most of my photos is called Selfie City (for Android) but it MAYBE too heavy handed for guys and make them look a little too polished as the default setting, but you can reduce the filters and "the beautify" -function to be less brutal. (Yeah, I do run my photos through a filter, as most of you can see, but the guys I have met haven not complained, and I still want to look like myself in the photos and mainly use them to reduce the shitty mobile phone camera error as I am too lazy to use a real camera for these. And I am too lazy for makeup too, personally, this is a good alternative for a daily makeup. )3. Take 30 shots for every 1 photo you publish. The ratio for professional models, by the way, is about 300 shots ON FILM for 4 printed photos, so don't skimp. 4. Use a timer to get away from the camera for the shot or, even get one of those blue tooth remote buttons that you can get for about 5 bucks at a discount store. 5. Use the forward facing camera so you can see what you are doing in case you were not narcissistic enough to notice this option before. (Some of them has a beauty setting inbuilt, which might be enough to soften the tones just enough to not make look like a monster... I don't know how bad it is for guys, but creepers it is terrifying to see yourself as a girl, then, you run to the mirror to check if you really missed all of that... Brrr!)And finally: There are NO men who are too ugly to fu... with a little mind to how you present yourself, but there are women that no amount of styling will ever rescue. Therefore, men are more beautiful than women are, so shut up and get to work.
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5/2/2017 2:03 am |
Oh you did hit some more of those... Points for sure - and I too when I first joined up, all those cocks were reaaaallyy full on! What is more, I signed up from a mirror site called polyamorydate.com and I was thinking BOOOOOYYY there's some people missing the point entirely. Regardless, being a pervert, I stayed. Women can do the clutter too... tho. I think sometimes the clutter maybe slightly erotic if it looks like clothes thrown off in the heat of the moment - but that would be rarely the case. Your profile photo is exactly right for anonymous, but I don't mind the faces amongst dicks tho, I find it a relief... I suppose with women it's boobs, boobs, vaginas, face... The only thing I find bad about the broadcasts - and they do bring in those much needed points that get you benefits... So it PAYS to get it right, is... Women don't watch men the same way as men watch women. Maybe it's just me, I like watching men, but I don't even know what thought I should masturbate on while watching! However, what I do tip is a beautiful scene.. One I would love to see is a guy working on something naked. I don't really want to watch a guy wank, necessarily, but I'd loooove to watch a guy naked... As long as the aesthetics have been taken into account. I don't know what that could be... An artist painting, naked? Doing pottery? Powertools and cocks are perhaps not the best combo. A guy reading in the nude, I don't know... Something beautiful like that. (And if he, then, maybe, casually strokes himself, that's not a bad thing... ) Cumshots... Not necessary. Cum belongs into the vagina in my view, and seeing it everywhere else is suuuuch a waste! (Weird fetish of mine considering I don't want children, but I hate seeing semen cast on the ground! )
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