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Blogs > Sebastyne > Smut Rock Sexy

Keeping one's personality and sexuality separate...  

Sebastyne 48F
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3/27/2017 2:24 am
Keeping one's personality and sexuality separate...

People sometimes get surprised when others treat them as sex objects alone and do not care about their personality. Yet, when you browse a site like this, you notice how many people offer nothing about themselves in their profiles, all it is is cocks and balls, with next to nothing in terms of personality in there. The need to separate one's self from the act of sexual 'perversions' is there, even on a site like this.

I don't think I've ever had a second date in my life without going all the way on the first date - if there ever was time for the first date, either, considering the amount of men who I've met at a bar and went straight to bed with them. Never once have I felt objectified or like "just a sex toy" with a guy, and quite frankly, sometimes that's how I want to feel like. The reason is, that I don't want to hide my personality most of the time, I'm not ashamed for the fact that I am This, but also That. That there is many sides to myself and that they all come together as who I am as a whole. That should not be a surprise to anyone that intelligent, whole people have a full spectrum of sides to themselves, but still a lot of people try to completely suppress their sexuality or separate it from who they are failing suppression.

The reason why men don't treat me as a sex object is because I actually DO have a genuine personality that is mine and mine alone, it is not some standard cut of traits that a decent girl has to have in order to be a grown up woman, and every man and every genuine personality can point out the traits all women try to portray and possess, whether they're real or not, and if they can't muster them up, feel sick about who they are and how much they fail to fit in the expected mould, and the more their friends, who they say they love, fail to fit into the mould the more they fear for her: "OMG she doesn't know how to be a standard female!!!" and try to help her (force her) to fit that same god damned cookie cutter mould as a favor to her... What man could ever love a woman with an actual personality, anyway?

The amount of bullshit that people collect around themselves just to appear normal is mindboggling and stupifying. They think they are being adult when in fact they are simply being fake and boring and predictable and mind-numbing in their lack of creativity or personality. They say the right things, do the right things, hold the right opinions, and think they are doing a stellar job at being an awesome woman.

And, surprise surprise, nobody fucking cares.

So they get frustrated, start yelling at their husbands and their for their failure to appreciate how awesome they are and then they wonder why nobody is really close to them or doesn't understand their personality.

Fuck.

And I am frustrated because I feel like there's this band of idiotic women surrounding me trying to tell me how much they "love me" and want to "help me", but in reality what they feel is fear of the unknown and they simply haven't got a clue how a person like me can exist in the society, when I do nothing the way they have, in their infinite wisdom (read: idiocy) decided to be for the best.

If I ever get over this frustration and hatred of these women, I'll be surprised.

I think I derailed from the topic, but that's how I roll.

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