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I DO Love His Cock
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I DO Love His Cock Here's the proof that I can get raunchy -- I am a big fan of Jackyl. If you have no clue who the hell Jackyl is, then you were likely born a decade either before or after me. You didn't wear tight Levis and you have no idea what Aqua Net is. It was when guitar solos and men with pretty hair ruled the rock world. Sigh... those were fun times. Course, I wasn't known as the type that listened to this music by many - just my friends at the mine pit parties. And, today, most people in my life would be shocked to learn I do dance to these songs when I am all alone. (Sorry, Polyamory Date won't let me post links, apparently we are supposed to pretend we can get all we need from this site alone. Go to another site and type these songs in the search if you want to listen) Jackyl sang the famous Lumberjack Song.... And before Buckcherry came along with Crazy Bitch, Jackyl gave us Dirty Little Mind Often times he did the Bunny Hop on stage to this song, dropping his pants and hopping across a stage full of women bent over for him. Even though, he's *THAT GUY* who did that, you gotta admit, the lyrics get deep here. Even HE knows you get to the woman's MIND first... "And I know what she's thinking Yes I know what's on her mind You've got to know, my body's sinking into her mind (DEEP!!!) And I know she'll never let go Cause I've got her on a stick stick stick stick...stick" Course, then he does the stick thing, so maybe I give him too much credit... oh well.. he has pretty hair, he can say anything. (Shhh... I know he probably doesn't have that hair anymore... ) And, finally, yes, he sings She Loves My Cock... classic... This brings me to the point of this blog -- I DO love a man's cock and I feel no shame admitting that. I think there are two types of women: those that love it and those that put up with it. The latter group loves sex and loves what it does to them, but "OMG, don't make me LOOK AT IT... (let alone touch it)." Those are the women that call something so awesome "Junk." And I am sorry for that, because they are missing out. But let me reel back a bit here, because we must be clear the cock isn't the end-all, be-all for a great sexual experience. I am learning that men do feel a lot of pressure when it comes to their prized jewels. I have always been a little sensitive to this, as I have never liked the word "perform" when it came to men and sex. I found that to be demeaning and pressure-filled. You have to PERFORM??? YIKES!!! I sure wouldn't want to do that, so why would I expect that from my partner? But it goes beyond that, I am learning. Dr. Ian Kerner says that men learn to protect their manhood at an early age - some of the protections are voluntarily, but some are involuntary (such as the "cremaster reflex".. look it up, and even though I have seen this reflex in action, now that I know what it is called and why it happens, it just that much more exciting). I am quoting Dr. Kerner from his book Passionista: the empowered woman's guide to pleasuring her man: "The journey to, and through, manhood is very much a journey of learning to stay in control..... "To live in a society, we all require a degree of control. Too much control, however, and we can become automatons. Control is always being right. Control is not letting your feelings influence your life. Control is not letting the joy of life be a goal. Control is being neutral or neuter. Control is not being sensual. Control is lessening the enjoyment of sex. Control is not being aware or responsive to feelings of others, since you are not aware of your own feelings. Control is always being on an even emotional plane." I don't know if men will agree with that whole paragraph, but it sure made me sad to read it. I know my ex was always "even keeled" and that's why I likened sex with him to having sex with an unfeeling cold statue. I guess I would rather take the lows with the highs, because the highs feel freaking amazing.... But, back to the cock, in the physical sense..... It has been enlightening to learn the frustrations some men feel when women mishandle it. I haven't asked if I have mishandled it before (I will in the future), but I will take the moans of pleasure "that feels SO GOOD" along with "that was the best blow job I have ever had" as validation I am at least in the right direction. And, yes, that makes me happy, because NOTHING makes me more happy than making a man feel amazing. I am sorry for adding this little blurb about myself in here, I don't know why I did that -- offering up my "references" -- I suppose because this is a dating site after all!  Before you can make someone feel amazing, however, you have to APPRECIATE them.... Appreciate the cock, be able to look at it, study it, and long for it.... because you can only be truly good at something if you enjoy doing it, otherwise you are just faking it and that will be apparent in the end. I really wanted to get deeper with this blog, but I am still processing all I am reading, so these are just my intial thoughts coming through. I am thinking of women (grown women in their forties for Gosh Sakes)who still laugh and giggle at the sight of a cock and I want to say, "Grow up." For the sake of your relationship, your man, Grow Up. Dare I say, if a man EVER laughed at the sight of anything on a woman... (or called it "junk").. well.. we know how that would fly. (hide the scissors!!!) I don't mean to criticize women, as I have been there, too. "Too shy" to look... or whatever. But real pleasure comes from knowing it, loving the way it looks and longing for it. Your man will feel that as well, enhancing the whole dance. So, men, I say KEEP sharing your beautiful cock pictures... no matter what size (we all know the g-spot is only an inch or two in the vaginal wall, right??? but I will save that for another blog..) Stop comparing yourself to other men, stop worrying about "penis envy" or whatever.... hopefully your woman will learn ALL your sensitive areas on the pelvic region (it's ripe with secret places to explore) so that your cock isn't ravaged every time as if that's all you have to offer or get to enjoy. So much to learn, and I am tired, so I am just rambling now..... This is what Jackyl and a good book does to me. |
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love reading your blogs .... also would love to have you make me feel good some time. like to see you happy too as i would be. hope to talk w/you soon.
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Your writing get me all hot and bothered.
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Lol, You make me smile and laugh! I've listened to Jackyl for years and D I R T Y Little Mind (She likes it from behind!) You have studied so much about the male anatomy, I honestly think that you know more about my cock than I do! I really don't understand why sexually enjoyable thoughts are called dirty though? How can something so pleasurable be naughty, bad, or Dirty? I do believe that sex should be very slow and enjoyable at times and fast and passionate other times, and always mutually pleasurable!!!
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1 post 3/23/2014 7:59 am |
Thank you GreenEyedArcher for your well written and thought provoking blog posts. Based on what you have written, I have a couple of Dr. Kerner's books on order. I can't wait to start reading them!
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Great read, like how you just let your thoughts spill out onto the page.
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