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Blogs > GreenEyedArcher > The Seeking Archer

There's always a string...  

GreenEyedArcher 50F
42 posts
3/16/2014 5:39 pm
There's always a string...
I don't believe in NSA (no-strings-attached). For me, that's not possible. As I look back with fondness at every sexual experience I have had in my life, with every man I got to share intimacy with at varying degrees, I smile with gratitude. I deeply and genuinely care for each one, even if we didn't "end up together." I obviously didn't end up with any of them, in the end, but I don't hate any of them for it. We can't force things like love in life -- you gotta roll with it. I am pleased to say I don't regret one sexual experience... not even in my twenties when I had those one-night stands. Course, I was careful and always practiced safe sex and I feel I have been healthy when it comes to sex. So, for me -- there is nothing to regret, just great memories. Obviously it hurt when some of those relationships ended, but as I get older, with the sting of the hurt faded, yes -- fondness and gratitude remain.

So don't ask me not to care. Don't ask me to not want a connection. I don't want sex with a mannequin. I don't want sex with an unfeeling, cold statue (hello, sexless marriage anyone???) I do not feel it is too much to ask to want to have sex with someone who wants to have sex with ME (for who I am, not just my body).

That means there is a string.... the beauty is we get to define it (and use it how we please).


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